Ideas to rock his world

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Ideas to rock his world
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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 2:59pm

My husband of 20 years is going away for 2 weeks to another city for work.

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 3:22pm

Hello roxieforu!


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it sounds like heaven to me!! have fun! and come back and let us know how it goes!

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 4:24pm
Hi roxieforu. It all sounds good to me. But what do you think he'll think about it? Have you guys done this kind of playing before?



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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 5:16pm

Is there any chance he'll feel uncomfortable or weirded out about this and either ignore it or call you at home to find out if it's something you really set up? It would just be a shame to do all that planning and look forward to it and he not show up for fear of being put in a situation where he would be compromised.

I know that I would never, ever walk into an unknown and possibly dangerous situation like that unless my DH had indeed told me that it was something he had planned as a big surprise for me.

Is there a way to let him know you'll be visiting that city but spend the day setting up something equally exciting while he's at work?

When my DH traveled a lot for business, he was often compelled to attend dinners, drinks, events or conferences at the end of the day and often on short notice. If I had tried this, I might have been waiting until 2am for him to show up, assuming he was too tired and blew it off.

Do you guys already play with bondage, blindfolds, whips, toys and all? If not, I would suggest you do not introduce it this way.

I'm not trying to be a downer, it's all good fun. It's just a very complicated plan and you definitely want to be confident that it all goes smoothly.

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 6:33pm

If it was my husband, I doubt he would put on the blindfold until he was sure it was me. I would probably just be sitting on the bed in the sexy outfit so he saw me right when he got in, and then I'd blindfold him afterward. Or if you don't want him to see what you're wearing, you could leave some of your stuff that he'd recognize out in the open so he was sure that it was you.

You might want to take your cell phone with you in case he doesn't show up at the appointed time. Then you call him and tell him there was somebody who wanted to meet him and called to let you he never showed up.

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 7:30pm

Thank you all so much for you feedback!!

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Sat, 03-21-2009 - 3:31am

Good, if you guys play this way already you're set.

Leaving a voice message so he knows that it's not some joke (or worse) is perfect. You could tell him he needs to collect a note left for him at the front desk of his hotel. Then, buy some nice paper and an envelope and make it clear (in your writing) that he needs to show up at your place at an appointed time and if he's late, he will be punished appropriately. Make sure he has time to get into your room, shower, have a drink, etc and be explicit that he needs to be on the bed, blindfolded by a certain hour. Also, consider that he may very well relish the sight of you walking through the door in a trench coat, dropping it to the floor and revealing yourself to him. THEN you can get bossy and tie him up, blind fold, etc.

You might want a small case that has your toys, whips, paddles, etc so that he doesn't spend time snooping in the room, ya know?

We have 3 kids in the house so I know what that's like, trying to have a passionate and spontaneous night while keeping it quiet.

He may have the fantasy of a stranger in a strange town, but I have a feeling no stranger could compare to the night you'll give him. And you'll have at least another 20 years to remember the night together.

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