Keeping track of ex-'s ?

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Keeping track of ex-'s ?
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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 3:57pm

Hey there,

how many of you have links to ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends on facebook or myspace profiles? And if so, does your wife/husband know about them?

On my Facebook profile, I am linked to my wife but also to two ex-girlfriends who I hadn't been in contact with for years till I saw them on the site. I'm sure my wife recognized at least one of them, but hasn't said anything.

Has this caused any friction with anyone else ?

Both of my ex-'s are now married with kids, though one of them has started posting pictures of herself from her recent family vacation. Certainly brings back good memories of what's underneath that bikini top ;-)

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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 4:58pm

I don't use facebook or myspace. i was on myspace a few years ago but now i have it blocked on all the computers so it can't be accessed at all. I do sometimes talk to an ex bf, but he was my Dh's best friend and room mate too so they talk more than me.

I guess my feeling is that contact with an ex is like most other things in marriage. If it's something that is a secret from your spouse because it will hurt them or cause arguments or friction, then it's probably a bad idea.

What if she told you it made her feel uncomfortable or hurt her feelings that you are in contact with either of these women? Would you delete them and end contact?

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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 5:09pm

If it was making my wife uncomfortable then yes, I probably would delete them; but its out in the open as it is, on FB my wife can see if I've been in contact with anyone or sent them a message. I'm not trying to keep it hidden.
btw, she also has a couple of her ex-boyfriends in her list, but they live overseas now so there's unlikely to be any physical contact, though I can see that she has emailed them a couple of times.

That said, if my ex- keeps posting more of her busty bikini pics, I may get some stern glances !!

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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 9:49pm

Hello jmacn, welcome to SMS, I m MEME one of the CLs here along with Nenu!


The only "exs" on my FB or myspace are from high school almost 30yrs ago! so who cares! as it is my DH is soo much better than them anyways! Plus my DH is on both myspace and FB we are each others 'friends' on them so I can see his boards and he can see mine. nothing hiden but nothing to hide either! After 29yrs together...Im not worried and neither is him.


I agree with LM...if its hiden then its bad. if its out in the open and she/he knows. then that is good.

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memeblue

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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 9:52pm
There's a reason why my 'ex-'s' are 'ex', and as such I have neither need nor reason to keep in touch with any of them. Especially not the stripper.


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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 10:59pm
LOL! Steve, would you please just answer one of the stripper's emails? She keeps emailing me hoping I'll sway you in her favor! ;)
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 12:09am
I'm friends with several of my exes.

 


 


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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 1:47am
I don't and won't keep in touch with any of my ex's that why they that.
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 8:05am

OMG LM she is emailing you too!!!

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memeblue

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 8:10am
Just tell stripper-babe ex-GF from hell that I'll get right back to her — the day after hell freezes over. She wasn't even that good in bed.

Who me, bitter?

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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 8:39am
it's OK Steve, we understand. You can't help it when "strippers love your pole!"
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