Kinda embarassing...

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Registered: 12-26-2008
Kinda embarassing...
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Sat, 01-03-2009 - 7:35am

Sex for me has always been just that. The act was never fufilling. I couldn't seem to reach that much wanted "O". My sex life with my now ex-hubby was awful. He was selfish and what one would call a 2 pump chump. No matter what was tried. He was 12 years older. A lot of the reason we divorced was due to our sex life. He was a prude and not willing to last long enough so that I could reach an orgasm.

I have been divorced now for 8 months. I started dating my best guy friend. Sex is way different. I finally have been able to accomplish an amazing orgasm during sex. Before I had to manually accomplish that.

So this is what is embarrassing. I squirt. It isn't just like being well lubricated. When I actually reach climax it is like a sprinkler. I am too embarrassed to talk to my woman doctor. My SO says it is the hottest thing ever, but I actually am embarrassed. It is almost to the point of not wanting to have an orgasm. I soak the sheets. Nothing is worse than having to jump up and change the sheets after wards.

Is my SO being honest? I am just afraid he might be grosses out by it and not telling me. What causes this? Is there a correct term. I am 29 and never experienced this until we started sleeping together...

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 01-03-2009 - 8:06am

It's called female ejaculation (FE), it

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Sat, 01-03-2009 - 10:40am
It's so hot nikalina, just try to enjoy it.
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Sat, 01-03-2009 - 11:15am
Welcome to the board, nikalina. I think Tish has explained what is going on, and I just want to add that it's a great sign, since it shows you are, indeed, enjoying sex and are with someone who is attentive to you and your needs.




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Registered: 04-11-2003
Sat, 01-03-2009 - 2:58pm
My wife has had this happen about 3 times, but only when using a Hitachi Magic Wand. I can say it is totally hot and I don't mind changing the sheets at all, though I would rather be prepared and have a towel under her just in case . . .
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 01-03-2009 - 9:20pm
Tish has explained the wonderful process of female ejaculation, and others have told you it is a rare gift, so enjoy it. Have an old towel under the bed so you can easily pull it out
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Registered: 12-18-2007
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 3:08pm
Hi Nikalina, I am 47 y/o and I skirt like a fountain! DH says it goes as high as 3 feet into the air. This is usually while I am laying down and he is masturbating me. It it a wonderful rare thing, so enjoy it. Try different positions too and the orgasm may be more intense. Mine are explosive when I FE. My DH LOVES IT! He is usually the one pulling out the towels!
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Registered: 05-11-2003
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 4:38pm
Enjoy your new lover who has opened himself to you and allow yourself to celebrate your new sexual freedom. I squirt too, like soak the MATTRESS. So, we were using those washable crib pads, but it still leaves me w/ extra laundry and if we have sex more than once a night I need to have several clean ones. This might sound embarrassing... but first I got disposable bed pads. They are $$$$. Then I realized puppy pads are the same thing except they are bigger, cheaper and better! We totally laugh about it. Believe me, DH wouldn't care if we had to get rubber sheets, he LOVES it. Just have fun!
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Registered: 08-26-2008
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 9:20pm

I do it too! Don't worry, it's great! DH loves it, I just keep a supply of towels near the bed and we don't let it stop our fun!

Glad you found someone awesome to share yourself with! Welcome!

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 5:15am

I'm so jealous, I never had female ejaculation ever. I asked hubby about it and he said if it did happen it make the sex more exciting.


Is there a way for me to get it happening?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 8:50am

I do it as well! not as much now but I use to! Im happy you found someone that takes the time to make sure you enjoy this time of your life!


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