Kinky sex...TONIGHT!!!

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Registered: 04-10-2003
Kinky sex...TONIGHT!!!
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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 6:20pm
I need help. Well, I need advice. My husband and I have been married for 3.5 years and we have a great sex life. We have sex I'd say an average of 4 times a week (most weeks) and we're very open sexualy with each other. We've used toys and tons of positions and other different things. Seems like sex gets better every time we have it. I can't complain at all about our sex life and I know my husband thinks he's one of the luckiest guys he knows for all the sex he's having compared to his married friends who seem to only get it on special occassions or once a month or so. Anyways, point of my writing here is that we had company staying at our house on Saturday night and we were talking about sex and kinda talking dirty to each other after we were in bed that night. We were talking about kinky sex and he said to do something kinky to him. I told him not that night because there was company in the next room but that he'd get kinky sex within the next two nights. Last night I fell asleep early so no sex. That means he's expecting kinky sex tonight. He's been hinting at it all day in e-mails and phone conversations. Right now I'm probably not feeling particullary sexy since I've got two kids hanging on me all day, but I just don't know what to do that's kinky for him tonight. I'm just looking for ideas. I'll try anything once but I think I am shy about things like really talking dirty or doing a strip tease or something. Any quick ideas would really help me out. Thanks!!!
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Registered: 10-27-2005
Mon, 11-21-2005 - 6:25pm
Not sure what you consider kinky, but how about tying him up and tease him a long time, then finish him off with a BJ. If you really want to get kinky, share it with him.
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Registered: 04-10-2003
Mon, 11-21-2005 - 6:30pm
Hey, now that's a good start! I don't consider that too crazy at all, but it actually happens to be something I've never tried (with him). Good one! Thanks!
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Registered: 04-10-2003
Mon, 11-21-2005 - 8:35pm
I tried the e-mail but I don't think it worked. Try e-mailing me and I'll reply. Sometimes that works.???