Ladies--what makes...

I honestly think it's the same answer for both.

What makes a good partner is someone who listens, who cares, who takes the time to think about the little things that matter so much. Someone who holds you when you cry and rejoices when you triumph...who takes you into themselves and makes you a part of their heart and soul...and who becomes and inextricable part of yours.

That is your partner...all the rest is just the frills.