"likes" not shared with your partner

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Registered: 11-29-2007
"likes" not shared with your partner
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Mon, 02-02-2009 - 1:24pm

1) Is there anything you like in the bedroom that you haven't shared with your current partner?

2) Why not?

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 1:35pm

I've been with my currant partner for nearly a quarter of a century and I don't think that there has been any likes and preferences, both known and newly discovered that hasn't been shared with the other.

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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 2:46pm
Good point...we all know communication is key!
I'd be more than a little suspicious if you said that you and your lovely wife agreed 100% on your fantasies though...what fun is that???
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Registered: 05-29-2008
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 8:03pm

Got tired of dropping hints.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 8:54pm

Everything I like and

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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:11am

glad you started letting him know.

I know I wonder sometimes about DH not "picking" up my codes! LOL!

I have been married almost 29yrs sooo he knows all mine and I know all his...some we have done some we will never do, but that is fine!

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memeblue

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 5:58pm

1) Is there anything you like in the bedroom that you haven't shared with your current partner?

Yes - Been married for over 12 years BUT... I'd like to delve more into anal exploration. On her AND me...

2) Why not?

Guess I'm afraid she might think it strange that I would want it done to me. I have done some things for her but nothing major mostly brushing up against with finger or tongue during sex or oral.

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 9:55pm

"I know I wonder sometimes about DH not "picking" up my codes! LOL!"

Many men aren't attuned to "picking up codes" that women prefer to use rather than to just ask.
I didn't realize this until after my deceased wife had stopped being intimate several years before she contracted her terminal illness.
Seems that we both missed out on things and it didn't need to happen that way.

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Registered: 09-30-2007
Sun, 02-08-2009 - 6:15am
More like she has "shared" that she doesn't like oral sex. I have been married 20 years. Never received oral from her. She said she "just couldn't do it" Didn't bother me all that much. But the killer for me was a few years ago she stopped me form giving to her. She said it "just bothered her too much because she thought it was gross for me to be 'down there'".
 
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Registered: 11-29-2007
Sun, 02-08-2009 - 8:46am

Well, I suppose you can take the 'high road' and say that any DISlike she communicates with you is just as valuable as a secret desire she has and finally shares with you.


We all known damn well that it's not nearly as much fun though.