Married 37 years, our sexual adventures, what r yours?

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Registered: 02-23-2000
Married 37 years, our sexual adventures, what r yours?
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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 10:37pm

Ok married folks, we are sharing our playtime adventures, will you do the same?

We share reciprocal oral, enjoy mutual and solo masturbation; we both shave; she will indulge in my nylon fetish time to time by wearing stockings, or pantyose while having sex; she has even had me to wear her thi highs while playing on occasion; recently we purchased a vibrator strap on; she will stimulate my prostate manually; we make love under the stars; in the car in the rain; on the mountain top; before fire places;    soooooooo   now what do you readers do?

 

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Registered: 02-08-2010

I think I'm in the middle of you two. Married 24 years. Have tried a lot of everything. When we first married I was he second person she had slept with. I remember the first time we had sex doggie style, it was a new experience. The next day she asked me what position that was and how woneriful it was and could we do that some more. We went from that to trying things such as anal play (both ways), to things such as golden shower, and oral sex since she had never had done that, CBT over the years ( she still will do this as well). We have tried several other things as well.

And then it all stop, just her on top, doggie, or missionary. No more lingerie, no more anal play, golden shower (once in the the last six years, happen about two months ago). Except one night while she was on top I asked her to spit on me and to my surprise she started to spit. first time around I was like WOW, it took six years before she finally would give me a golden shower to the first time I asked her to spit on me she did it ( this just happen a few months ago and every time I asked her to do this she does).

We have started to schuedle weekend get always, in hopes of bringing back some more fun and adventure in the bedroom. It was her suggestion. I hope it work!!

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Registered: 01-03-2007

That's funny because there isn't anything I CAN talk DW into. We used to be pretty crazy, we've had sex in a peep show booth watching two women, pulled over on the side of the road and done it on the hood of the car, anal, in our hot tub while another couple did it, plenty of oral, I've taken photos of her.....now, missionary twice a week, she barely touches me. Sometimes she lets me do oral on her. Still trying to figure out what happened, ha ha.

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Registered: 04-06-2012

There isn't much my husband can't talk me into, I'm pretty much game to try anything once *within reason*. He likes to buy me lingerie and toys, and enjoys seeing me use them both. I like to surprise him with sexiness underneath my clothes on occasion, he never knows what he might find. When we have an evening out together, we like to go to a bar and flirt outrageously with each other. We like the chance to be carefree and feel young again, and it can lead to some hot sex in a random place.