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| Fri, 03-25-2005 - 11:25pm |
Dear all,
It is five months since our marriage. After marriage he returned to his work place (after 2 weeks)and I joined him after one month. Our sex life started only then, but I am not sure abt it. It took time for us to do it properly, all went wrong in the beginning.
But still I have doubts, can u people help me. Usually I guide his erect penis into my vagina, can’t he find it himself? Or is this the correct way? And how deep will it enter into my body, will the whole thing go inside? Sometimes I don’t get wet at all, only little wet. Must his penis must be fully wet in the fluid inside my body? It appears dry after sex.
I don’t feel anything during our sex, may be because of my attitude- I was busy with my research and higher studies and gave little importance to sexual matters, and I was ignorant abt many things and only because my hubby was so supportive I managed many things. So now I am very much worried for him, whether he gets pleasure from this, I really love him and I want he to be satisfied. Whenever I ask him abt this, he says it is all OK.
Usually he will on top of me, the other way I don’t like, I will lie down flat and he will do it all alone, must I also move along with him?
Plz help me .
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It seems to me you are both very inexperienced. Maybe you both need a bit of guidance on some foreplay and position basics, to get a better sense of what you both enjoy.
I don't know where you live but you might benefit from going to a large bookstore like Borders and picking up a basic book (or two) about sex that you can read together. (I can't think of any titles, I'm kind of past the how-to stage!) Maybe reading together would start up some discussion and "practice" sessions.
Good luck.