married sex life

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Registered: 03-25-2005
married sex life
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Fri, 03-25-2005 - 11:25pm

Dear all,

It is five months since our marriage. After marriage he returned to his work place (after 2 weeks)and I joined him after one month. Our sex life started only then, but I am not sure abt it. It took time for us to do it properly, all went wrong in the beginning.

But still I have doubts, can u people help me. Usually I guide his erect penis into my vagina, can’t he find it himself? Or is this the correct way? And how deep will it enter into my body, will the whole thing go inside? Sometimes I don’t get wet at all, only little wet. Must his penis must be fully wet in the fluid inside my body? It appears dry after sex.

I don’t feel anything during our sex, may be because of my attitude- I was busy with my research and higher studies and gave little importance to sexual matters, and I was ignorant abt many things and only because my hubby was so supportive I managed many things. So now I am very much worried for him, whether he gets pleasure from this, I really love him and I want he to be satisfied. Whenever I ask him abt this, he says it is all OK.

Usually he will on top of me, the other way I don’t like, I will lie down flat and he will do it all alone, must I also move along with him?
Plz help me .

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 03-26-2005 - 9:03am

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Registered: 07-16-2003
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 1:57am
you should be interested. you should enjoy it. i mean, it's one thing if you're not in the mood every time, but you should be in the mood sometimes. foreplay is a must! make him make you want him. have him kiss your neck, pinch your nipples...whatever you like. do the same to him. get into it before you go at it. it will make everything so much better. even if you don't have an orgasm from intercourse, you should enjoy it. (a lot of women don't have orgasms from intercourse, actually.) make it be more than sex. variety is the spice of life! experiment - maybe you're a "making love" girl who would enjoy slow, sensual, intimate, spiritual sex. then again, maybe you're a "f*cking" girl who just would enjoy being thrown over the back of the couch and gone at hard from the back. FIND OUT! *hehe*

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 11:17am

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Registered: 02-28-2005
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 11:35am

Maybe

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Registered: 10-16-2004
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 3:12pm

It seems to me you are both very inexperienced. Maybe you both need a bit of guidance on some foreplay and position basics, to get a better sense of what you both enjoy.

I don't know where you live but you might benefit from going to a large bookstore like Borders and picking up a basic book (or two) about sex that you can read together. (I can't think of any titles, I'm kind of past the how-to stage!) Maybe reading together would start up some discussion and "practice" sessions.

Good luck.