Masturbation in front of spouse?

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Masturbation in front of spouse?
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Mon, 11-07-2005 - 5:25pm

I have been a lurker here for months, and thought I might post a quick question - just out of curiosity....

I was reading somewhere in one of the posts that if one partner is not in the mood, too tired or stressed or whatever for sex, that masturbation is no problem for the one who is in the mood.

So, if that's the case....do you do it in front of your spouse? "You just lay there and rest, Hon. I'll take care of business myself, and then we can cuddle." Or, do you get up and go to another room, do the deed, and then come back to spend time with your spouse?

I'm just curious. I personally LOVE watching my DH masturbate, and vice versa. But usually it's just a form of foreplay. We watch each other, and then we come together to finish. I don't know how I'd feel about it if I was present for the entire event from start to finish.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 6:39pm

Hi Phoebe,

My wife and I will masturbate together occasionally, but also on our own while the other is next to them. Probaby happens once a week when one or the other is just too tired.

Peace,
Scott.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 8:48pm
I believe that was me that stated that in the thread titled
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Mon, 11-07-2005 - 10:17pm
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Mon, 11-07-2005 - 11:22pm
Phoebe,
My wife won't masturbate in front of me (she never has) and won't let me do it in front of her. If shes not in the mood, she just tells me to go to sleep and have some self-control.
I usually go take care of business in the bathroom after shes asleep.
TM
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:32am
Thank you!

~Tish

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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:54am
The woman in your new siggy is HOT! If you look like that your DH is even luckier than I thought!
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Registered: 05-20-2003
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 12:59pm

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Yeah, I think if one of us started taking matters into our own hands - even if the other was too tired or not in the mood....we'd get in the mood pretty fast! I don't think either of us would be able to just lie there and not participate - not that that's a BAD thing! LOL!

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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 2:11pm
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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 2:17pm
I will do it in front of DW if she's not in the mood. But usually she'll try to stop me by telling me that she'll be ready later.
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Registered: 07-13-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 6:14pm

I don't like when DH does it in front of me if I'm not going to participate.

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