masturbation as part of sex...

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Registered: 03-15-2011
masturbation as part of sex...
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Tue, 03-15-2011 - 10:51pm

My wife and I have a good, if not great, sexual relationship.

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Registered: 01-14-2005
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 2:25pm

Very common for DW and I. I often "take over" with my hand on my penis while she shifts to licking scrotum and then rimming. We both enjoy the action.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 4:29pm

Hi there.

Question.... Is there a particular reason why you stop her and take over? Is she not using enough pressure, to much, not wet enough, etc? Maybe you should let her know why you're doing it. I would be a little hurt too, if I didn't know why.



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Registered: 02-25-2010
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 4:38am

We always begin our sex activities with mutual masturbation while watching a hardcore porn DVD. She uses either a realistic dildo or her fingers. I just lube up and use my hand. When she gets close to cumming I will go down on her until she cums. I will usually not cum from masturbation and will wait for IC or oral. She will always cum at least once more. Sometimes she wants me to cum from masturbation so I can cum on her boobs.

Oldkinky
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Registered: 03-28-2011
Mon, 03-28-2011 - 1:50am

Hi there.

Question.... Is there a particular reason why you stop her and take over? Is she not using enough pressure, to much, not wet enough, etc? Maybe you should let her know why you're doing it. I would be a little hurt too, if I didn't know why."

I second this question/suggestion. Your goal is to make her feel at ease, so you ought to try talking to her about it.

On a personal note, I don't see why you would do it, but to each their own. Only reason to change your ways might be to help your wife be at ease with the situation.

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Registered: 04-04-2011
Tue, 04-05-2011 - 9:59am

If your going to introduce something new in your sex life it is always best to discuss before the actual attemp.

I'm sure she confused by you "pushing" her aside so you could masturbate.