My husband doesn't believe that I love him.

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Registered: 03-06-2012
My husband doesn't believe that I love him.
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Tue, 03-06-2012 - 3:44pm

I've been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a 4 year old and a 14 month old.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Mon, 04-02-2012 - 7:29pm
geekman wrote:

Like looking into a mirror, except I learned to live with it and have stuck around for 25 years. The kids adore their Mom and she is involved 110% in their lives 11 months a year and on the 12 month she rests. I am not part of the picture, six or seven times a week? hell I would be satisfied to get laid one more time before I die. Why do I stick around? Probably an emotional and soulful one. I signed up for better or worst. So I am stickin around no matter what. She seems to be at her best when being a full time mom and who am I to take that away from her. I don't know what to say to husbands who want more because I am one of them. However I have children and with children life changes and I take the blessings for what they are, an occasional I love you or a gift would be nice but I don't hope anymore. Life can be so short so as a participant a visitor or a face in a crowd I appreciate the hard work of all mothers. If mothers could have maybe three minutes to say Happy Fathers Day that would be nice too.

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Registered: 06-17-2003
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 6:39am

You're right and I appreciate the thought. I mentally have not been able to cross that bridge yet. I would love to have more sex with someone but in reality is that someone really out there?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 3:42pm

No one can honestly answer that question. You have to decide if you're willing to take that risk.



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