my husband wont eat me out :( never licks me everrr :(

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Registered: 10-17-2011
my husband wont eat me out :( never licks me everrr :(
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Mon, 10-17-2011 - 5:53pm

im 22 years old and happily married with a child but i dont like my sex life at all...my husband wont go down on me which is a bigggg dissapointment for me....i think because i have this in my mind i dont get wet while having sex which is even a bigger dissapointment for both of us....i have never reached orgasm ...never...the thought of it excites me but ive never experienced it...i really want my man to lick me but he just wont even if i ask him?? ladiessss tell me what to doooo??? how can i convince him?

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Registered: 08-01-2006

Have you sat him down and talked to him about this? What is his reasoning for not liking it? Do you perform oral on him? As for not getting wet enough, do you spend time on foreplay? That is what most women need, and make sure you get some clit stimulation. Whether it's by your hand, his or even a toy.



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Registered: 01-03-2007

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Registered: 06-27-2005
My DW won't go down on me and does not let me go down on her . I would love both, heck I would like to get laid more than a couple times a year. As far as not being wet he needs to take his time and kiss,hug,touch, feel, and then when you finally say I need you inside me then it is time. Just tell him he cann't enter until he makes you so hot you ask for it.
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Registered: 06-27-2007

As a man I find the sexiest thing in the world is for my DW to moan and scream and clutch at me and give me her orgasm.

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Registered: 08-16-2011
as a retired military member....i've eaten a ton of box lunches....and you never knew when you might get your next "meal"....love that stuff....

Get a toy...get a friend....get something and have an orgasm.....ASAP!

If you aren't wet enough....get some lube!
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Registered: 02-06-2007

Have you tried flavored lubricant?

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Registered: 03-27-2003

First let me say that I am sorry that you have reached this point in your life and not had the fulfilling experience of orgasm.