My wife does not "cuddle" after sex

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My wife does not "cuddle" after sex
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Wed, 12-16-2009 - 1:12pm

My wife doesn’t like cuddling after sex....at least not until she has first showered and changed first.

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 1:42pm

I don't think there's anything wrong with you, himba. My husband has perfectly normal levels of testosterone but yet loves to snuggle up to me and cuddle after sex. Does your wife maybe have issues with the messiness of sex and the closeness you share during the act?


Though written for a woman who can't get her guy to cuddle, Dr. Patti Britton offers advice that I think you can use for your situation, too: http://love.ivillage.com/lnm/lnmgetcloser/0,,drpatti_8ws,00.html

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 2:18pm
No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. And there is nothing wrong with you wife either. That's just the way the two of you are. Have you tried discussing this with her? How you'd like to cuddle for a little while afterwards? Of course, talk about it outside the bedroom, not in bed after sex.


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Registered: 05-13-1999
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 2:48pm

Ah-ha!

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Registered: 02-25-2008
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 12:29am

Suggestion...


Why don't you try something else, like a different location so you can cuddle in bed afterwards (minus the sweat on the sheets), or maybe shower sex?


Thats my 2 cents.


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 9:01am

There is nothing wrong with either of you.


yes I get right up and go potty, every time cant help it! LOL! I just have this feeling of having to go right now! LOL!


What we do is both go to the bathroom together and he washes off, and I go potty and wash off...then back in bed to cuddle!


Why not go shower with her?? you could wash her back off and tha way you are albe to be close to her.


I have a friend that has to shower after every time no matter what even if she got out of the shower right before they did she would go back to the shower afterwards again. she thinks 'everyone' can smell it on her will not go anywhere right afterwards.

memeblue

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Registered: 08-11-2006
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 8:51pm

There's nothing "wrong" with either of you and not every man wants to jump up and go smoke a cigarette on the balconey afterwards. (I love that way of putting it BTW)


I enjoy cuddling after sex as well, but My Lady reaches a point of being "touched out".

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Registered: 08-11-2006
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 9:06pm

My Lady is exactly the same way.

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Wed, 12-23-2009 - 9:08am

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 12-24-2009 - 8:29am
I so agree Moon!

memeblue