Need Advice!!!!!!!! Is She Cheating???? AGAIN??????????????

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Registered: 10-08-2003
Need Advice!!!!!!!! Is She Cheating???? AGAIN??????????????
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Sat, 11-26-2011 - 8:25pm

I need some advice, and real quick!

Background

- been married 26+years

- I have been faithful throughout the entire marriage

- she had an affair, beginning 3 months after our wedding

- not sure how long it went on, a couple of months for sure

- ended and she confessed

- sat idle for 25 years

- it has been a thorn in my side since, never dealt with it and to be honest, I threw it in her face until recently

- she went on a business trip 1200 miles away which she has been for nearly 15 years

- she went to a party without me, with her friends

- her friends consist of a couple I know, and at least 2-3 men I don't know - relatives of the couple I know

- came home from the trip with pictures on the camera

- some pictures showed men sitting beside her with their arm around her - not lose, a tight hand on shoulder pic

- I caught a glimpse at the photos at the airport when I picked her up late

- Morning I grabbed the camera and looked while she slept

- I saved a couple pics to my hard drive

- Later that evening when she shared her photos, some were deleted and hidden from me!

- we addressed it and I told her how it made me feel

- she admitted she screwed up - heard that one before

- these guys (friends of the couple) now text here on a regular basis

- I feel jealous and a little afraid of a repeat of the past

My question, is it happening again?????????????????????

Please help me, I am falling apart!!!!!!

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Registered: 08-25-2010

Yes, I stayed!

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Registered: 10-08-2003

Thanks for all the advice and after this last question, my counsellor will take it on.

These texts back and forth, i seen one tonight, it's rare I see more than a 2 liner becuase she deletes everything as she reads it.

It was her telling him good night and the next line was"I hope you're still smiling!" it was all her, no response from him

Are things said normally between a married woman and a single guy??

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Registered: 08-01-2006

Have you talked to her about what you saw/found?



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Registered: 10-20-1999

I think you might want to check out these other boards for more help...

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Registered: 10-08-2003

UPDATE!

Not 100% sure where things are!

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