need some suggestion...............

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need some suggestion...............
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 5:34pm

My husband and I are heading out of town this weekend, and I would like to make it a special weekend. We have been married for 3 1/2 years and really haven't done anything special. I would like to try new things in bed, and just make it a fun, exciting, and a weekend to remember. Please offer any suggestions that you might have.

Thanks!

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Registered: 04-09-2005
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 9:00pm

I'll tell you what... make it a little easier on us...

What have you done, and what would you like to try? Give us a list, and we'll tell you which is the best one.

There's a million things you could do. And there's ideas all over the boards here...

Hope you're not too disappointed in my answer ;o)

Cheers,

Boddies

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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 1:30pm
I remember the first time that my wife laid me on my back and mounted me "cowgirl style". I don't know what possessed her, but she rolled around and grinded me so that I thought I had died and gone to heaven. I then had a most explosive orgasm. This position is now part of our sexual repertoire.


Edited 4/27/2005 1:31 pm ET ET by gigi_1000
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:06pm

I agree with Boddies. You have to narrow it down some. Basically, anything you haven't done would be exciting. Has he mentioned any fantasies?

What ever you do, just make sure you're both into it.

Have fun!
Iris

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Registered: 02-28-2005
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 2:34pm

I have recently learned that a good approach is not just what you do but how you deliver it.

-Pam

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Registered: 04-20-2005
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 6:01pm

I haven't read the other replies yet...but my honey and I are going away for our 12 year Anniversary this weekend too. I told him to get a room with water fun...I am taking my water toys :o) Also...DH's best friend (he trusts us and dh doesn't like to go out) and I have gone to the booby bars a few times and I learned a few moves from watching the dancers. One sat with us almost a whole night because it was slow and my friend kept getting lap dances from her. After talking to her...I realized that what they do isn't always "just a job" and they actually enjoy it and get off from time to time. Soooo, I am going to try some of the rubbing and grinding out and do a lap dance for my dh. :o) Maybe that is something you could do?

Diva




Edited 4/28/2005 6:04 pm ET ET by passionpartydiva