New here - want to spice things up
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New here - want to spice things up
| Tue, 11-25-2008 - 1:45pm |
I will try to provide a quick background: I met my DH in high school, we dated for 7 years, been married for 14.
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First, let me congratulate you in your willingness to keep your sex life alive. Too many married couples just let that part of their marriage wither up and die.
There are a lot of things you can do to spice things up. Some are very simple like after the kids are in bed, tell your DH you will be back in a few minutes. Go back to your bedroom (alone) change into something sexy and start masturbating. I know that in my case after a few minutes I would wonder where she is and go look for her. When he walks in look at him and say, "Sorry honey, I couldn't wait." I'm sure he'll know what to do.
When was the last time you made love outside. Is there a secluded place you can go to? I love sex on the beach.
How about role playing? He can pick you up one night. You can be anything from the shy out of town girl to the hooker. Whatever you are comfortable with.
How about blindfolding and tying him up then telling him exactly what you are going to do to him.
Do any of these sound appealing?
I like all the one's mentioned above.
DW and I are looking
"Life is a drama, and there's only the one performance" - Luna di Rossi
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"Life is a drama, and there's only the one performance" - Luna di Rossi
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We do this every few months by going to NYC, both of us knowing that we will have fun and one of the primary purposes of the trips is to have great sex!!!
About once / year we also splurge by going other places. One of the most amazing places for us in terms of spicing things up is by going to one of the "honeymoon" resorts in the Poconos. We get one of the rooms that have the Champagne bathtubs/jacuzzi, indoor pool, massage table, sauna, round bed, mirrors, etc.... you get the picture ;-)
This is one place that we've both opened up more sexually to each other. When we return from these trips, our relationship is always much stronger.
I hope that this may have helped.
Anne