Newly motivated;)

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Registered: 04-29-2005
Newly motivated;)
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Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:10am

My dh(25) and I(23) have been married for almost 3 years. We've been together for about 5 1/2yrs. We have small children and just recently got out of an awful routine of sex once a month, if we got around to it! I've been lurking for awhile looking for tips and info. So, I thought I would introduce myself.

This last weekend we sent the kids to grandmas house and made up for a lot of lost time!;) We get to voice our fantasies and desires very rarely. He works long hours and with the kids going everywhere we do, it makes things really difficult. Espcially being that we are both the spur of the moment type. So, we now have a journal that we keep leaving short notes to each other in. Something we would like to try out, or a fantasy we have never shared, something we were daydreaming about, a "remember when" note. It is great!

He can't keep his hands off of me, and I cannot stop thinking about it. Which is a HUGE step in the right direction, because for some time, I thought I had lost any interest whatsoever. We need to keep things going. Our daily life has been so much better. Dh even spent Sunday afternoon doing the dishes..LOL.

Thanks for letting me share!

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:21am

Can he stop by Houston and show my DH how to do the dishes???


LOL - welcome to the board!! What a great inspirational story!!!



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Registered: 02-28-2005
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 5:42pm

Good for you for making sex a priority!

-Pam

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 12:33am
It was nice of you to share your awareness of the importance of a great sex life in a marriage. I have been married 50 years, and because my wife and I always made time for the enjoyment of sex, I am still going strong at 75. So you see, looking ahead, you are assisting your husband's sexual longevity without realizing it!!