Is this "normal"

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Registered: 09-19-2010
Is this "normal"
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Sun, 09-19-2010 - 3:13am

My wife(15 yrs)

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 9:40am

Hi and welcome toprod. I am sorry you're going through this.



Ok, so she's had a couple of affairs and you're the one making the changes? No offense, but personally, I think both people need to make changes.



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Mon, 09-20-2010 - 11:20am

"How old are the two of you? How old are the children?"

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Mon, 09-20-2010 - 4:06pm
How was the sex between the two of you before her affairs? Did you ever find out why she had them?




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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 7:39am

Hello toprod



welcome to SMS! Im MEME the CL here!



I really think you both need to go back to counseling! together and alone. There are somethings still out there that ya aren't dealing with. Ya aren't working together to make things better so you need some outside help.



I wish you luck!

memeblue





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memeblue

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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 10:38am

How was the sex between the two of you before her affairs? Did you ever find out why she had them?



nhgal



Sex betweenus before the affairs was pretty good, especially before kids.