is this normal?

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Registered: 08-28-2006
is this normal?
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Sat, 09-04-2010 - 9:50pm
is it normal for a married man to be looking at hot pics of girls on the internet, or should I (his wife) be worried?


Edited 9/4/2010 9:51 pm ET by elyssak
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In reply to: elyssak
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 3:41pm

It can be.

 


 


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Registered: 06-14-2002
In reply to: elyssak
Tue, 09-07-2010 - 4:14pm

It depends. If he is fantasizing about them as potential sexual partners, that could be a problem. If he is viewing the object to satisfy his sexual urges, that could be a problem. If it bothers you, it is a problem that the two of you need to address. My 2 cetns

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BTW I am a man, who has had to deal with porn issues.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: elyssak
Tue, 09-07-2010 - 7:51am

hello elyssak,


welcome to SMS! Im MEME the CL here!


I agree with Tish and BL....there is really no "Normal" when it comes couples, sit down and talk to your DH about what you found and work it out together!


good luck!

memeblue



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In reply to: elyssak
Mon, 09-06-2010 - 3:56pm
Nothing in life is "normal." Should you be worried about it, I doubt it. Have you sat down with him to look at naked photos? Does it bother you that he does it? If it does, have you spoken to him about it and let him know how you feel?



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In reply to: elyssak
Sun, 09-05-2010 - 6:49am

I would say most people enjoy looking at other people who are hot, sexy, pretty, handsome.

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