Question.... Please answer....

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Question.... Please answer....
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 12:42pm
Hi all... I dont post here often but read from time to time... this is actually mamachelle's husband. I was reading the post about no-no positions and noticed a few responses like jennies about no anal from behind and a few others about anal positions. I chuckled a little cause of my own previous experiences. I was VERY inexperienced before my wife of 5 years. We have tried so many new things together with one being anal sex. We have had such a hard time succeeding in that dept. more because I cant seem to get angle right. One time I got so frustrated I just stopped all together and it ruined the whole night. I am only about 6" so it is not really a size issue as much as it is inexperience. My question is what postion works for some of you? I have researched a little bit but would rather hear from a human being instead of diagrams!!! LOL.... Mostly what we have tried is her on her belly with legs semi closed together with a pillow under her mid section. Has anyone tried this? Or is it too difficult. Icant seem to do anything standing as I lose my erection after about 30 seconds. So even doggy style on my knees is a very rare thing. Thanks for any input...
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Registered: 09-22-2004
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 1:12pm
The position that we have found that works best for us is spooning. I lay on my right side and he lays behind me and I tilt a forward a little.
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Registered: 04-07-2003
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 1:23pm
Hi Christi... I know my wife really likes this position as she will rub up against me in bed and sometimes it feels as though she is trying to guide herself on to me. but she doesnt push it very far as we tried that position before for regular intercourse and I just couldnt seem to get it right. I got in but not that far and I kept falling out. Is that due to my size? I would love to give her everything that she wants as she ALWAYS does for me. but I think I get nervous about failure and ruining the moment. I have never been able to ask questions as I already know she will tell me what I want to hear. Can a man of 6" have sex in that position? Or is this just me?
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Registered: 09-22-2004
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 2:29pm
It is easier if she will tilt her torso forward a little bit, it will be easier to stay inside her. It is most certainly possible to have intercourse this way being your size, I dated a guy who was smaller than you and we achieved intercourse in this position.
Anal sex is easier in this position than 'regular intercourse', IMO.
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Registered: 09-20-2004
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 3:23pm

My love and I occasionally practice some A*al play when she is in the mood and found it best with her lying on her back, Ihave also been tought not to stroke as you would during regular vaginal sex, and just rub her cl*t manually or with a toy for best effect

cheers Jacobiteone

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Registered: 01-24-2005
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 4:54pm

When my DH and I have anal I am usually on my stomach whith him behind, my legs spread. That seems to work best for us. Sometimes though I will be on my back ...... easier for DP

There is a thread on the fantasies board under the stories section. I think it is called: Button girl steps out"....not sure. But the story is very discriptive (and hot!) about giving and receiving anal.

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Fri, 04-15-2005 - 1:48am
Thank you to those of you who bothered to reply... sorry... was at work took a bit to get back on here... I will give suggestions a try... Thank you very much.