role play

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Registered: 11-30-2004
role play
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 1:12am
how do you role play with out comimg off as stupid or silly, me and the DW have discused about trying it but it just seems kind of silly and how do you go about doing it.any ideas?
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:14am
I like to bring up thoughts of situations from the distant past, when I was dating my wife and wasn't allowed to have sex with her. I bring her back mentally into that distant past and do everything that I wanted to do to her way back then. She enjoys it too, and it is very erotic. Only try it if you can "get into it". If you can't, just don't do it.
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Registered: 01-26-2005
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 4:52pm
I can relate to how you feel....dh and I think the same way.....
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 5:30pm

Afraid I'm not all that good at this either. I'll be interested to see what others say.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 8:00pm

Ossy,

It is silly...that's why it's fun. Sex is really just about play, so approach it that way and you won't feel silly.

Peace.
Scott.

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 8:23pm

No matter how silly the role play itself if you are having a good time and your DW is having a good time then it's a success.


Sometimes DH and I are still in character the next day!!!!


To go about doing it... first I assume your DH is into it too?


You have to decide what you want to do!!


My DH and I do mean jealous DH and nawty wife. Which is total opposite of what we are. And I get spanked for not doing chores and the like. THe verbal is the big part of that for us.. it's great. Sometimes we dissolve into giggles.


Do you want costumes? Accents? Toys???


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Tue, 04-19-2005 - 3:53pm
We love role play.. We got started with some simple stuff and worked our way up. I can give details if you want. But the key for us is to plan ahead a bit. we will talk about during sex for a week or so b4. That gets the comfort level going. To be honest the first few times we drank a little first (never hurts :) ). We have worked to crazy stuff now. It is much easier with practice. Another piece of advice. Unless you hate something, try it twice. Much better the second time.