Role Playing, Anyone?

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Role Playing, Anyone?
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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 3:24pm

Do you ever do any kind of role playing with your partner? What scenarios are your favorites?

Just curious.....

Phoebe:)

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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 7:00pm

I recently had an incredibly hot roleplaying encounter where I was a waiter and my wife was the customer. I used a downloadable menu that allows the customer to choose sexual situations instead of food items. I highly recommend it. Please let us know how it turns out if you try it.

romanic
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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 10:06am
I was just curious because my DH and I do this once in a while. We used to frequent the area bars quite a bit a few years ago, and we were good friends for many years before we became lovers. So now we do the whole, "I'm in a bar, and you come over and pick me up" scenario, and we also talk about how hot we were for each other all those years as just friends. Sometimes we pretend that one or the other of us is a virgin, and we have to "teach" each other how to do everything. It's fun to "try on" new personalities and see where it takes us.

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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 11:49am
I used to love doing this but DH isn't into it. He says he feels uncomfortable. Are you all sensing a pattern here? LOL. Joel gave me an idea with the whole Hooters thing so I'm going to check out that menu. I was just going to have beer and wings for him when he got home from work one night and greet him at the door like he had just walked into the place. Any ideas how to get Hubby to participate while we're on the subject?

 

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Registered: 11-09-2005
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 10:57pm

I've thought about doing some role playing, and have told DW some of my ideas, but we've never actually done it. Whenever I think of getting to the point of acting it out, I feel like it would be awkward and silly instead of sexy. I'm not naturally a theatrical person, so that's probably a part of it. On the other hand, in a way all of life is role playing, depending on how you look at it. Point is I'm afraid it would be silly. Any ideas on how to overcome that fear?

Flyboy

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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 11:16pm
You just gotta go for it. It's kind of cool because you can sort of hide behind your character, and it actually makes it easier to communicate your desires. I'm not theatrical at all, so I used to feel the way you do. But I sure am glad that I overcame it.
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Sat, 12-10-2005 - 12:35am

We have a few...virgin/sex god, teacher/student (we like to act this one out in the lecture hall we teach in...when we're alone, of course!!), random hook-up (we show up at a night club or a bar seperately and make it a mission to seek each other out and seduce the other...I HIGHLY reccommend it!)...there are a few others, but those definately top my list of favorites!!

Liz

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Sat, 12-10-2005 - 7:18am
I think the easiest one to start with is pretending to be strangers at a bar. Leave her earlier in the evening to go get ready, then you don't know what the other will be wearing etc. and it gives her a chance to have some fantasizing time before hand. Arrive at the arranged location and have a glass of wine or whatever relaxes you. When you see her don't go over or acknowledge her right away, really drag it out. Start with a few glances across the bar, a little smile, see if she wants to be the aggressor tonight. Trust me, it gets surprisingly easy to get into it after that.

 

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Registered: 11-09-2005
Sat, 12-10-2005 - 9:43am

Tanya,
That sounds like a lot of fun. We'll have to try it some time--gotta find a sitter first, though.

Romanic, thanks for the encouragement.

Flyboy

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Sat, 12-10-2005 - 5:53pm

You're welcome...let us know how it turns out!

romanic
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