Sleep Sex???

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Sleep Sex???
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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:43am

My DH has this "sleep sex" he does, for example...last night we were both falling asleep by 9pm, so off to bed we go, both are fast asleep with in mins of going to bed. Then just about 10:30, DH graps me, and starts trying to kiss me, and running his hands on my legs, I put my hands on his chest and push him alittle, then he rolls over and out again. he doesn't remember doing it at all. I keep telling him one of these days Im not going to stop him! LOL! but I wanted a DH that is A WAKE to have sex not sleeping thru it! LOL! Last night I was so tried and in such a deep sleep when he did that I didn't 'think' about it. (now I have after he has done that rolled over and taken matters into my hands and he thinks I started it! LOL!)


anyone else do this or does your dh/dw?? if they do what do you do??

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memeblue

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In reply to: cl_memeu2
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:13pm
I have had this happen to me. Kind of a state between sleeping and being awake....generally after thinking about sex before going to sleep....lucky me, my wife is usually very ok with it. It doesn't happen often...kinda fun when it does. I always wake up completely before anything serious happens.
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Wed, 01-28-2009 - 5:17pm

I have had sex a few times

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Sat, 01-31-2009 - 12:35pm

For a year or so there Sleep Sex was the only sex we had!


We have a bedtime routine of rubbing each others feet. We switch sides of the bed and lay at opposite ends. He watches tv and I read and we give foot rubs which usually involves leg and hiney rubs. Sometime in the night he'll curl up behind me with a raging hard on and it goes from there. We wake up before penetration but we're both so aroused at that point there's no turning back.


I still prefer intentional sex because sleep sex it seems is just filling a physical need. There's not a lot of emotional connection in the middle of the night.

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In reply to: cl_memeu2
Sat, 01-31-2009 - 7:46pm
I'm guilty of trying it on when I'm fast asleep lol.

 


 


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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:37am

There is a condition called "SEXSOMNIA" that is a proven medical condition.

In extreme cases, there have been people accused of rape or sexual assault for what they did while asleep!

Google it and you'll see any number of news articles about the subject.

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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:39am

WOW I never knew that! thanks!

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memeblue

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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 3:52pm
LOL!
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