Thanks for the courage!

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Registered: 07-14-2003
Thanks for the courage!
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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 2:09pm

I've only been here a few days and already I'm feeling so much better. I'm not alone! There are women who have stronger libidos than men. For quite some time, I thought I was a freak, now I know I'm not! Yay! And, last night was fabulous, thank you. I talked about sex all through dinner - I had a conversation with my SIL and for some reason, we talked about our sex lives, and her sister's sex life, so I told DH, and we laughed - I think it did the trick, though!

Now, tonight, I think I am going to try something completely different. DH gets home around 5:30, and has to be somewhere at 7. I don't want to wait until he gets home at 10 because I may be too tired (and I get tingly still when he walks in the door after 10+ years of marriage), so I am going to try to ambush him for a quickie LOL! Since naked speaks to him, that's what he's gonna get.

Wish me luck....I'm not always so hot at these things :). It's a gamble with him...but hey, worse comes to worse, I'll just try again tomorrow.

Blondie


Judy 

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 2:29pm
((HUGS)) hope things work out for ya!!!! glad you joined us on the board!
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Registered: 04-08-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 2:32pm
A naked DW does the trick for most of us guys! Good luck later today.
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Registered: 07-14-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 11:56am

Yeh, well, apparently it doesn't do the trick for my guy.

Judy 

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Registered: 10-16-2004
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 12:28pm
I'm sorry to hear that.... :(
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Registered: 04-08-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 12:34pm
Sorry to hear that Judy. Better luck next time.
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Registered: 04-09-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 12:42pm

You know, I think it's a real travesty that there are men like your DH married to women like you. There are so MANY of us who would really appreciate what you did, who will never likely get to experience it in our lifetimes. I feel your pain!

Maybe try again with something a little more subtle, and at a time when there's ins't other things on the agenda.

I found the Clashing Libidos board really helpful - it gave me a lot of insight into the people in this world that *don't* rank sex as #1 priority.

Cheers,

Boddies