Threesome? To Have or Not to Have?

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Registered: 09-25-2009
Threesome? To Have or Not to Have?
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Tue, 04-13-2010 - 8:23pm
My husband wants to have a threesome. With me, him and another woman. He said it would make our relationship better. Would it?
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Registered: 11-29-2006
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 11:37am
Hi kiwi, you've already gotten some good advice, and the Sex Taboos board's Open Relationships folder is a good place to ask for more, but you may also be interested in this video from our sex expert Tracey Cox.


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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:40am

I agree with the other. Is this something that you want to do, or just hubby? Doesn't sound like the two of you have really discussed this, which is something that needs to be done. Talk, talk and talk more.


Why does he think it will better the marriage? Is there something wrong with it?


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A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others,
makes all the difference.
Winnie the Pooh




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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 8:39am

Hello kiwibubbly,


welcome to SMS


Im MEME the CL here...good question!


I agree with Trish, its something you can decide in 5mins, take some time to think it over and talk about it, set up the rules.


the big question is..."why make it better" is there something wrong with your relationship this will not make it better. If he means it will bring you closer....then that is up to you both if it will or not.


Was a threesome you ever thought about doing before your DH said it? has your DH talked about a threesome alot or just now??


for us a threesome isn't something we want to do. But each couple has their own rules and what they will and not do, its up to you both to work it out together!


Also I suggest you go to the Taboos Board and ask there in the Open Relationships folder.



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memeblue

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 8:21am

No one can tell you what it will do to your relationship.

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