Tight

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Registered: 07-22-2007
Tight
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Wed, 07-29-2009 - 7:38pm

I love foreplay. My wife loves it also. Even with an ample amount of time it still takes a little to inch it in. I don't think I am super thick, when I am fully erect a toilet paper roll won't fit around it. It doesn't matter what position, when we start out doggy style she just has to scream into her pillow. No blood or tearing just a lot of 'good pain' as she puts it.

Just wondering if anyone has the same issue.

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Registered: 07-02-2009
In reply to: azmesa
Sat, 08-01-2009 - 3:41pm

She does not let you enter because of pain because of your size. As suggested here a KY jelly may or even an emulsion from mustard oil may help you enter. Use your finger coat her entrance area & apply good amount to your penis.

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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: azmesa
Fri, 07-31-2009 - 9:21pm
When you are done with your foreplay have you places your fingers there? Is she wet after your foreplay?
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Registered: 04-07-2006
In reply to: azmesa
Thu, 07-30-2009 - 10:31am
Welcome to the board, azmesa. Do you use toys with the foreplay, such as a dildo or vibe that you insert in her, to start opening her up and relaxing her? Is it possible that she tenses up somewhat knowing that you are rather large in diameter and that it hurts? Do you finger or fist her first? The other poster suggested using lube, that could help as well.

I'm Nenu, co-cl here along with Meme.




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Registered: 12-27-2006
In reply to: azmesa
Thu, 07-30-2009 - 9:15am
I really hope you have tried lube. If not, Astroglide could make things much better for you both, especially her. When you say foreplay, does it include oral on her? That could help a lot too.