Too Much Worried....Going to be Married Next Mont

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Too Much Worried....Going to be Married Next Mont
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Mon, 04-23-2012 - 6:21pm

Hi Everybody,

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I think you should be so proud that you have waited. Your 1st night will be so special. Sex, like all things, takes practice. The more open you are with each other the better your sex life will be. I know it is easier said than done but don't stress about it. She is marrying you so she loves you and your sex life and marriage together will be so much more special because you are sharing this moment with her. Both of you should just be honest with each other about what you want and as you have sex more you will learn each other's bodies.
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Take a deep breath and just relax. Good for you for waiting until you got married. I am assuming that your partner knows you've never had sex before, so there really isn't much of a problem. How long have the two of you been togther? Sex is supposed to be fun. Get goofy, laugh and it will be what it will be. Learn about and pay attention to each others likes and dislikes.

Has she had sex before?



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Agree you should be proud you wait for the right person!

About that night, take your time, go slow, enjoy your time together. Make sure she is very wet and ready too. Know that she will be just as nervous too. As you have more sex the better it will be and talk about things with each other. Talking isn't the whole thing you have to listen really listen to her as well.

I wish you a long long long loving full life for you both!

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While the ladies tackle the other side, let me give you a little advise on the physical nature - when you masturbate, when you start to feel like you are going to orgasm, stop touching yourself, let the feeling subside a bit, then start again.....once you learn how to control it, you will be fine. And, once you orgasm, that doesn't mean it has to stop......

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Tue, 04-24-2012 - 10:39am
Amante~That is great advice for him! That will mean a lot to her in the long run for sure!! =)
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Thanks for the advise dear really good to hear that..well yes she divorced after only 2 months relation bcz that guy was a cheater..sad thing.... but i love her so much so i just really want to erase her bad memories but about sex yes she do that before and she also knows that i never had sex before...
i don't know what was her experience about that so that's make me worried more also.. may be i won't satisfy her i don't know really sacry thing lolz
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Thanks dear I'll definitely try that i think so i tried that once before but while masturbating i make myself so excited so i can't control but this time i'll try that again... anyways thanks dear
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Thank you so much really it helps me a lot and sure the last advise is good not only talk listen to her as well :) thank you
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Hello,
You know wat you gave me confidence thanks for that as i told to nhgal2006 that she is divorced that make me more worried might be her experience will be better then before but might be not.. so that's make me confused also...she is a shy girl she love me a lot and i also do... but from sex point of view i am bit confused.. but anyways dear thanks for you help
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Wed, 04-25-2012 - 11:13am
You are so welcome and I am so glad that gave you confidence. Don't expect too much sexually, just enjoy it and her. You are getting married so you will have lots of time to practice. ;-)

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