TOO wet!!!

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Registered: 04-13-2009
TOO wet!!!
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Mon, 04-13-2009 - 10:57am

Ok, heres our issue. I get SO wet. & whenever I orgasm, I (as a female) do the whole ejaculation thing. Which yes, is great. BUT, I am just "so lubed up" that there isnt enough friction for my partner to come inside me.


Anyone have any ideas? He's funny ... he says "we've got to figure this out".

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: nenative
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 8:51am

Hello nenative,


welcome to SMS happy to have you here! Im MEME one of the CLs here along with Nenu! glad you jumped in!!


your question...


I had that problem before I hit pre-men. What we use to do is keep tissue near by and my DH would stop for a sec and dry himself off and start again. isn't the best but atleast it helped. Plus we used condoms for long time that really helped as it was best for him.

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memeblue

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Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: nenative
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 11:01am
Here's a trick a friend of mine uses for a similar problem: she puts her hand down between her body and his during intercourse and puts her index finger and middle fingers on either side of his penis like a "V". Then she holds enough tension in her fingers to essentially stroke his penis with those fingers while he's thrusting. She says this helps to add a little friction and a bit different sensation during intercourse, while helping him to stay inside her and not have issues with overlubrication. Maybe that will work for you, too?

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In reply to: nenative
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 1:32pm
Good Idea Stephanie!!

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memeblue

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In reply to: nenative
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 1:55pm
That's an excellent technique!
My wife doesn't get "too wet" as the OP described, but pressing her lips together a bit does make for an amazing sensation for both of us.