Tortise and the Hare...

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Registered: 01-11-2006
Tortise and the Hare...
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Sat, 01-21-2006 - 3:49pm

OK...I'm like the slow turtle and he is a flippin' jack rabbit and I need advice majorly!

DH is a slender well built 6'4 man fresh out of the Army.

I am a 172lb size 14, 5 foot 6 wife.

When it comes to foreplay I am still very self-concious(newlywed and lights off plz)but we are good there. When it comes time for the inital act, if I am on top its like I can ride 2-3 minutes and I'm exhausted and so he starts thrusting from below. Needless to say, he is a thruster! I remember the 1st time we had sex I thought "OMG HE A FRIGGIN" JACK RABBIT". My point and problem is this, I love to be on top, but I take it slow and it takes me awhile. He seems to thrust with me at times but we are way out of rhythm. I have tried and tried to talk to him and tell him to let me do my thing but the excitment takes over and BOOM, there I am on my back and Mr. Rabbit is going to town. I feel like he has to do all the work because of this. He has joked a few times I wear him out and he does all the work. He would never say it to hurt me, he has a great sense of humor. I blame it on my bigger rear end from having babies. I am trying to shed pounds so I'm not pulling so much A** behind me. Any ideas how I can speed up or even just make it more enjoyable for him. Its my turn to do the work and I need some pointers

Thanx!
Jamie

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Sat, 01-21-2006 - 5:12pm
Tie his hands and feet to the bed frame!

 

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Registered: 11-30-2005
Sun, 01-22-2006 - 7:54pm
Buy the little kids handcuffs (that you can get out of with keys), then tie up those legs and tell him "It's MY night!"
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Registered: 01-18-2006
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 2:53pm
LOL!!!!!!!!!! I totally cracked up when I heard that one!! Thing is, I have tried that, my DH is an average build guy, and those stinking handcuffs wouldn't go around his wrists!! Talk about a mood killer!! Any other suggestions? I've thought about using his neck-ties, guess I am waiting for the right moment!! ;)
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Registered: 01-11-2006
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 5:04pm
Same here girls! They would never fit. Its not the hands and feet thats my original problem. ITS THOSE FLIPPIN' THRUSTING HIPS that are like a rabbit!

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Tue, 01-24-2006 - 5:10pm

make sure your on your knees pushing up and down and not on your feet. I can't enjoy it for very long going up and down, I use more of the headboard or his chest to prop my hands on and "slide" for say. I'm 5'0 and 110 lbs so it really doesn't matter about your size. Being on top is funner some nights than others but, I would tell him to sit still and let me enjoy my time, Then flip to doggy or something else and let him have his way.
Doggy is really fun when he lets your do all the pentrating from upfront.
I wish you weren't insecure about your body, trust me he loves the way you look and he wants to see you naked with the lights on ( and no, you don't have to let him see you all the time)

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 5:19pm
easy for a 110 pound woman to say!