Toys? Games?

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Toys? Games?
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Fri, 02-06-2009 - 4:21pm

Do you use any toys, games, etc to help keep things fun and interesting?


I'm especially interested in the male perspective on this as DH and I have a plan to each purchase something that we think the other would like.

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In reply to: beckeyp
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 6:00pm
We've used
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Registered: 03-30-2007
In reply to: beckeyp
Sat, 02-07-2009 - 9:19am

We haven't played many games, but we love to use sex toys.

From his perspective, he's not into the toys alone, but he loves when we use them together. He enjoys feeling the vibrations, and he loves watching me get totally lost (as he calls it).




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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: beckeyp
Fri, 02-20-2009 - 5:13pm

I'm a lot more into games than DW, but here are a few things we do occassionally...

- Strip Cribbage. Any time a player gets more than 10 points, in their hand, their opponent must lose one item. Lose 2 for 16 or more. Can be adjusted up or down to make the game go faster or slower.

- Follow the leader. One person caresses the other, and the other person tries to do the same thing back. The leader calls "switch" every couple minutes to become the follower for a while. This keeps one person from getting too ahead of the other in terms of arousal.

- See my post under "Is this a good gift" for a description of a game called "Lover's Ecstasy", a Monopoly game ripoff that has each player performing a "penalty" for the other when you can't pay your rent. That's if you call Frenching your parter or squeezing their buns a penalty... We also steal the penalty cards and use them in addition to stripping when we play strip poker or strip cribbage.

- The only "toy" we use is massage lotion, DW really likes back rubs. I do too, but she doesn't offer very often.

Henry

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Registered: 05-22-2006
In reply to: beckeyp
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 5:15pm
For our 2nd anniversary last Fri, I gave DH one of those cheesy sex coupons book - actually as a joke with his "regular" present. I think they are silly, everyone's given/got one at some point in their life, right? Not him! He was THRILLED. I swear it was like he won the lottery and the book's made out of gold!! He was married for 22 years before me... He said it was the best present he's ever received. So I'm working my buns off, needless to say (even with the flu) but I am glad it made him so happy!












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