Vocal sex?!?

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Registered: 04-06-2012
Vocal sex?!?
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Tue, 07-02-2013 - 3:49pm

I'm just curious why guys get so turned on when a woman gets vocal during sex.  My husband likes it, although it's not always doable when their are kids in the house ;)   Is that something you like, and if so, what do you like about it? 

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Registered: 08-28-1998
Wed, 07-03-2013 - 7:51am

I'm not sure if you are talking about words, sound or both.  In any case, we want to be pleasuring you.  That's positive feedback that it is happening.  An enthusiatic lover is the best kind.   I love to hear how good it feels as well as directional feedback,

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 07-03-2013 - 1:56pm

I enjoy it when my wife lets me know that I am pushing the right buttons.  She isn't a screamer, but she does make a little noise. 

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Registered: 09-17-2007
Tue, 07-09-2013 - 4:54pm

Positive feedback is always appreciated.  Grunts and moans are more animalistic, making things heightened.  

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Registered: 07-12-2013
Fri, 07-12-2013 - 10:07pm

It's confirmation that you are enjoying it. When someone just lays there (like my wife does) it just feels like we need to get it over with. Give me some feedback and it's a lot better!

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Registered: 11-04-2012
In reply to: slah54
Fri, 07-12-2013 - 11:49pm

My hubby loves it when I am noisy.  He knows he is really pleasing me.  Also, I enjoy myself so much more knowing he likes to hear me.  The first guy I was with laughed at me for being vocal.  It has taken me years to relax and let myself be that comfortable.

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Registered: 07-20-2013
Sun, 07-21-2013 - 12:31am

I LOVE TO BE VOCAL WITH MY WIFE ,LOVE TELLING HER AND MOANING ETC WHEN IM IN THE GROOOOVE MMMMMMMM

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Registered: 11-04-2012
In reply to: slah54
Fri, 08-30-2013 - 1:19pm

I wish my hubby would be a little more vocal.

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Registered: 11-02-2007
In reply to: zaistars
Sat, 12-28-2013 - 3:13am

Tell him.  Married sex is about mutual understanding and fun.  Dont' be ashamed to tell your spouse what you like, don't like, etc.

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Registered: 11-04-2012
In reply to: slah54
Sun, 12-29-2013 - 7:41am

I tell him all the time what I like and want.   It just doesn't make any difference.