Was he happy or having a heartattack??

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Registered: 10-04-2011
Was he happy or having a heartattack??
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Mon, 10-17-2011 - 4:06am

:smileytongue:

*>SammieGizmo<*
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Mon, 10-17-2011 - 10:11am

The threesome is always a slippery slope. Does your husband know of your desire to please a woman? Perhaps that is the first step, to let him know. You can also do things like watching a porn and vocalizing your desires and see how he responds, or maybe when you are out together, point out a girl you think is hot. It is always a good idea to talk about something like this outside the heat of the moment. What about how YOU feel? Sure, it could be a turn on to see your husband with another woman, but what he he was to get a little too excited when he was with her?

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Registered: 02-06-2007
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 11:33am

Some ideas make enjoyable fantasies, but they don’t always work out so well if attempted in real life. In fantasies, you don’t have to worry about diseases, pregnancies, jealousy, or getting arrested.

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Mon, 10-17-2011 - 7:22pm

okay thank you for the advice. I think ill just stick this fantasy back on the shelves. the risks are something I didnt think about right off...best left to the imagination...thank you both.

*>SammieGizmo<*
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Fri, 10-28-2011 - 3:12am
Just be aware that if your husband IS intrigued or interested by the idea you may have opened Pandora's box - he may not let the issue die easily and will quietly (or not so quietly) try to pursue it at some point. Just be prepared to discuss it more closely with him and consider telling him that it was a spur of the moment idea that seemed good at the time but after more thought you decided that it was not some that you wanted to try in real life because of the pitfalls and problems that it can cause.