Who initiates sex and why?

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Who initiates sex and why?
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Mon, 03-28-2005 - 2:24pm
"Most often" it is the man who makes the first move at least in our case. Why is that? The husband is always ready when the wife initiates, but the reverse need not be true. Just trying to get some opinions.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 03-28-2005 - 5:04pm
With Dh and I, it's just about 50/50 but most of the time initiating is mutual.
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Mon, 03-28-2005 - 6:35pm
It's about 50/50 here. One of the best things about our sex life is that our drives, desires, needs, likes, etc are sooooo similar.


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 03-28-2005 - 6:45pm

well right now we are 60/40....with 60 being me!! and DH being 40!! it just depends on the week! most of the time we are 50/50...or both just want at the same time!


And dh has turned me down and I have turned him down

memeblue

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Registered: 09-02-2004
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 9:57am

I'd say it's 33/33/33. By that I mean, a third of the time it's me, a third it's DW, and a third it's both of us wanting it. It seems to go in waves.

I still feel odd sometimes though, due to a past relationship of asking, asking and asking, and never getting.