Will I ever grow out of this?

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Registered: 11-18-2013
Will I ever grow out of this?
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Mon, 12-09-2013 - 7:45pm

50+ y old M, I was off work for a day last week home alone. I masterbated 4 times to porn online. Then the wife came home early and wanted sex about 20 min after my last orgasm. I was able to perform ( which suprised the hell out of me ) but do guys ever out grow this behavior if they still can do it?

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Tue, 12-10-2013 - 11:35pm

I am a 50 year old man. I am hornier than average, but my sex drive is definitely not what it was at age 20. I gave up masturbation when I married 6 1/2 years ago. I currently have sex with my wife about 8 times a month. I could do it more often, but I can keep my pants on with this frequency.

Your sex drive must be extremely strong. If you haven't noticed a decline by your age, I don't know what to tell you!!!

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Registered: 12-12-2013
Fri, 12-13-2013 - 11:20am
Nice to know that your sex drive is still decent and infact very good, considering the fact you seem to curb your desire some times. It is a universal fact that sex drive diminishes as you grow older but with regular workout and healthy diet, you can sustain your drive and power. One of the major killer of sexual power is the stress in our daily lives, if we learn to manage our stress some how, through meditation or any other technique then we might be able to sustain our sex drive longer.
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Registered: 01-17-2014
Fri, 01-17-2014 - 5:35pm

Don't you dare outgrow it!! thats awesome!!

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Registered: 01-17-2014
Fri, 01-17-2014 - 5:35pm

Don't you dare outgrow it!! thats awesome!!

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 01-29-2014 - 2:27pm

Good for you. Why would you want to outgrow it?



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Registered: 01-01-2014
Tue, 03-11-2014 - 4:44pm

Or it can be testosterone.