Will Work for Sex

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Will Work for Sex
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Tue, 03-22-2005 - 7:52pm

Have you ever noticed your DH working more around the house before he's "in the mood"... has he ever buttered you up? Or maybe it's vice versus... you are extra attentive when you want a little nookie...


How about after good sex? Is DH all revved up to to do the dishes? Fold that laundry?




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Tue, 03-22-2005 - 8:38pm
No, the stuff he does he's always done and I usually have all that *fun* stuff done before he gets home.
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Tue, 03-22-2005 - 9:02pm

My DH will do some chores and things when he wants sex - but that's so I don't have to do them when I get home from work and can be well rested.


LOL




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Wed, 03-23-2005 - 7:31am

First of all, I already do alot of work around the house, when I am not at work. But I have noticed that my DW will be a little more attentive to me and a little more touchy when she is feeling frisky.

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Wed, 03-23-2005 - 12:55pm
LOL I wish that was all it took to get dh to do something around the house LOL LOL
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Wed, 03-23-2005 - 5:31pm

AHHH!!!

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Mon, 03-28-2005 - 7:14pm

My guy friend says that if he wants to get some he'd better act a little bit better. He says he will do the dishes and other stuff to "earn" it. He says that every guy knows that they had better do that and every girl knows that if the guy doesn't help out, that he isn't getting any. He says it's a fair trade. LOL He says maybe it shouldn't be that way but it just is. He says for a night in bed he will clean the whole house!

It's about giving the woman a break so she can relax and not be so tired. If a woman works and has a home and children she is absolutly exausted! Most guy's don't have a clue as to how much effort it takes to run a home. Sometimes sex just becomes one more "job" and it is too much work to enjoy. A woman who stays at home works the equivalent of two full time jobs. Men don't understand that.

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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 6:47am

I don't use sex as a reward or as a punishment so dh's activities around the house (or lack thereof) don't affect our sex life.


However, if we both pull our load, then neither one of us is overly burdened and therefore usually not overly tired. By both pulling our load, we keep that happy

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