Wives who have dated your friends ?

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Wives who have dated your friends ?
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Thu, 03-19-2009 - 3:00pm

How many guys out there are married to women who have previously dated your friends? Do you talk about it, and does it turn you on?

I originally met my wife because she had a long-term fling with my roommate (they were both cheating on their then boyfriend and girlfriend respectively). In fact they first time I saw my wife naked was when I inadvertently walked in on them when I came home early one day, she had her legs around his back and he was bouncing her on the couch! She told me years later that he was so surprised he came in her right there and then 

He and I are still good friends, though we haven’t met in a few years – my wife and I still get turned on by that episode; and by the times I was woken up by them having rough noisy sex in the next room… !

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Thu, 03-19-2009 - 3:16pm

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Thu, 03-19-2009 - 9:40pm
I met my DH's room mate before I met DH, and then dated him for a while. We have all sort of stayed friends I guess, Dh and him occasionally email or talk. I rarely talk to him. It's not especially arousing to think back though, I know DH heard us a few times but I dumped him and married Dh for a reason, not the least of which was a vastly more satisfying sex life. Plus, DH didn't fail out of 5 colleges by age 23!
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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 2:53am

No but I am friends with some women who were FWB's with my DH before he met me. DH and I attended the wedding of one woman he was seeing on and off when he met me.

Doesn't bother either of us...and one of his closest friends (who used to be a FWB) is now a very close friend of mine...LOL...and we've discussed his 'proclivities' in some detail. :)

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 8:14am

I never dated anyone Dh knew but

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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 12:49pm

Hmm... discussing 'proclivities' - sounds like a lot of fun!
My roommate and I discussed my wife a few times too... He apologized for having unprotected sex with her :-) which I don't mind; and I also found out that he did both her and one of her good-looking friends at a party one night...

At our wedding there were at least three guys there who have made love to my wife at some point or another :-)