Would u know if your DH/DW was cheating?

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Would u know if your DH/DW was cheating?
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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 9:19pm

http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/topics/0,,4tg8,00.html


This article gives 32 emotional signs your man is cheating. I agree with some - but not all.


Would you know if your DH/DW was cheating? Have you ever suspected? What caused you to suspect? Were your inklings right?




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Registered: 03-08-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 6:52am

I've never suspected him of cheating and it never even crossed my mind.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 9:06am

I agree with Tish...it not something that 'HAS EVER' crossed my mind!!


I know it will not happen! so why waste time even thinking about!!

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 9:11am
It's probably easier to catch a cheating DW. Isn't there a home test kit to check for semen in a ladies panties? Assumming it's not DH's.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 9:34am

Yes there actually is a test that does that BUT it would be a cold day in hell when my husband would

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 9:45am
well, what about the DW who doesn't wear panties? And at the point where you would actually have such trust issues that you would need to check don't you think that's the point at which you know things are heading south?



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Registered: 07-06-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 11:29am

> what about the DW who doesn't wear panties?

Based upon how life works, is it not the woman who carries off the physical evidence of cheating? At least there's a simple evidence test for her panties, jeans, or back of dress. I'm not sure what evidence a man would have.

I'd think most mates would know from the other's behavior, but not everyone is astute and an evidence test could help.

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Registered: 10-09-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 11:31am

I can't bide by the 32 signs and if there are unusual behaviors, which happen from time to time with my DH, I ask.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 2:08pm

If I or Dh had that much lack of trust in each other, the relationship would be ended without having to know if one of us was cheating.

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Registered: 02-28-2005
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 2:23pm

I trust him, but it has crossed my mind.

-Pam

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 2:34pm

Tish that's what I was thinking.


I have never thought DH was cheating and it we got to the point where I thought that - it would prob already be too far gone!




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