Would you....REALLY?

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Registered: 07-13-2005
Would you....REALLY?
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Fri, 10-21-2005 - 1:18pm

OK, the Q about women's fantasies, and something posted on another board got me to this question...


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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 1:59pm
No and I wouldn't be having sex with Dh either because he would be incapable of having sex if he pulled that.
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Registered: 10-09-2004
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 4:07pm

Good heavens NO!

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Registered: 07-21-2005
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 5:31pm
I agree with tish, I mean asking something like that and replying in fun, is just pure innocent fun, and if my husband brought in another guy, I would be really mad and embarrassed, I mean acting out a fantasy between the two of you is one thing, but to bring in a perfect stranger, that is demeaning. and it would tell me that my husband doesnt respect me or value what we have.. So if you are thinking about doing that, it will be a really,really bad move.
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 9:01pm
Let me get this straight, before it gets any further - I was NOT thinking of doing this!!! I was merely putting something up for discussion that I saw on another board...I would NEVER be the type of person to do something like that!
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Registered: 07-14-2003
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 9:17pm

Absolutely not. That is just way outside my boundaries. And a strange man wouldn't get near me...I loathe being touched by men I don't know. And I'd be spitting mad at DH.

Sex for me is far more than lust and physicality. My DH is my fantasy guy for more than just his good looks. I might fantasize about other men from time to time, but I keep it to myself, and I'd never actually carry it out.

Judy

PS I can't imagine my DH doing that in a million years, anyway.





Judy 

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Registered: 04-10-2005
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 10:19pm
I don't even like to dance with a strange man. I don't want my fantasies about other men to be fulfilled. When I fantasize about other men, they aren't people I know or have seen. They are faceless entities. Some of my fantasies are sex acts that should never be realized and those are the ones where I fantasize about another man. Otherwise it is my husband that I fantasize about.
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Registered: 07-21-2005
Sat, 10-22-2005 - 10:17am
Oh sorry, I guess I jumped to conclusions.lol..but you have to admit that there are alot of guys(not all) but alot who are PIGS,and would do that and expect their S/O to do the same...lol,,
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Sat, 10-22-2005 - 3:54pm
OMG NO way.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Sun, 10-23-2005 - 5:52pm
First of all, I know this would never happen to me because DH is very protective and doesn't even like me to hug other men (we have encountered this already) and I would never give myself to anyone else. Being intimate with DH is just too sacred to me. My opinion is that having sex with someone else would "cheapen" the experiences we have.
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Registered: 07-12-2005
Sun, 10-23-2005 - 10:40pm
I wish I could say that I would be really into something like that....but the fact is, I would be turned off. I am not one to sleep with a stranger just like that. I have to have an emotional connection to someone...and it would be weird to sleep with another man while still in love with dh.

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