Young woman with sex needs

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Registered: 02-19-2012
Young woman with sex needs
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Sun, 02-19-2012 - 3:48pm
This is the first time I am posting a question online but I have to ask someone! Ok. Well me and my husband have a great sex life! We have been together for five years and basically have sex four to six times out of the week! That is nOt the problem! The problem is that I have the desire to do something I don't think he is into! Needless to say I'm a freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets kind of girl. I don't know what to do! Should I suppress my feelings and desires to do these things (I dream about it and watch a few flicks here and there)?? I love him and he is a wonderful guy but I feel like I have a secret sexual side that I can never reveal! I wana be with this guy forever but I don't think he would ever been into what I want to do! The sex is great I just want to do more and I'm afraid ima scare him away! Lol! HELP!
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 02-20-2012 - 9:03am

You have to communicate with your husband. What is it that you want to do?



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Mon, 02-20-2012 - 12:07pm

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Registered: 02-19-2012
Tue, 02-21-2012 - 8:55pm
We talk about almost everything but I'm just afraid to say this out loud! I haven't tried it but I know that I want to do it! But thank you for you advice! I will go to the book store tomorrow :)
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Registered: 08-31-2011
Mon, 02-27-2012 - 6:27pm

How can telling your husband you want to get dirty with him be a bad thing?

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Registered: 09-26-2008
Thu, 03-01-2012 - 8:52pm
Tash1206, what is it that you think is so taboo? I can honestly say that I thought my wife's line of comfort might be tighter than my own, but with communication and time she enjoys more and more each day!

PS... is there some significance to the 1206?
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Registered: 11-11-2011
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 4:38am

I had been married for 12 years before I got the courage to tell DH what I wanted from our sex life.