Your imagination

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Mon, 05-02-2005 - 1:03am

OK, so imagine you and your beloved have been separated for a few months due to work.

Guys what's the first thing (Sexually) that you want your wife to do to you?

Ladies, what's the first thing you want to do or have done to you?

My husband is coming home soon and I want to surprise him. Not sure how though. We have been together for 10 years. No, we arent that old.......just got off to an early start.

I have been hitting the gym 3-5 times a week and look hot! I even bought a cute/sexy (not sleazy) outfit to wear when I greet him. Also, I painted my bedroom and am decorating it this week to create a very romantic mood thats comfortable for everyday too, not just the initial "welcome home".

So, use your imaginations and let me know.

Energy

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Registered: 03-30-2005
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 8:32am

Well, as a woman, the first thing I would want.. Would to be held & touched. The lack of physical contact over several months would have driven me crazy.

I think you are going to have a great time with him... absence really can make the heart grow fonder. Not to mention make you really in the mood. Have a great time!!

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Registered: 04-26-2005
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:17am

How exciting for you both!

My DH was gone for a long weekend this past weekend and even those 3 days apart made us crazy when he got home! (I love afternoon sex!)

It sounds like you've already done some great things for setting the mood. Getting in shape is not only terrific for you, but it will make his visual homecoming that much more enticing!

If you can, drag it out. Take him out for a nice meal, linger over conversation, let him settle back into the environment of your home. And then take it slow. Maybe a massage to get your bodies reaquanted physically without the pressure to perform. And then let it go from there. I LOVE the idea of switching up your bedroom. That is such a good idea!

And of course give him a little selfish pleasure if that is something you do. Let him know that his homecoming is central to you at that moment....

HAVE FUN!

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Registered: 04-11-2003
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:32pm
hi, so funny that you post this, because my hubby is due home soon too. I was just thinking the same thing today....what on earth can I do to make this homecoming one he will never forget?? It's hard for me though, we have 2 kids and so.....until they are in bed and we KNOW our oldest is ASLEEP we can't do ANYTHING!!!! because believe me, we have locked the door and then we hear a "knock, knock" what a way to ruin a mood, let me tell you!!!!
I say that you have done a great deal as you've worked out (something I so wish I had done while he was gone so he would just eat me up with his eyes when he sees me!!!) and the whole bedroom thing, I think that will definitely set a mood for you! (we rent, can't paint! :( )
anyway, good luck to you, I am sure I was no help, but it will be fun whatever happens! absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder, among other things, eh? haha
BEB
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:17am

OOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooh good thought!!!!


I would want to hit it and get it when he first walked in the door. I would wnat him to take me kissing me, hugging me and pulling my clothes off like he just couldn't wait even one more second.


I would, of course, return the favor!!



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Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:18am

OMG I would so not be able to wait!! That would kill me!!!


But - if you can go for the suspense... I bet that makes things even more intense huh!



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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 10:59pm
If you are picking him up at the airport alone (without kids), don't wear panties or a bra!!
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Registered: 05-06-2005
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 10:47pm

Hello Silvervelvet,

when I was married (16+), I was gone for a month or two several times due to work/travel for training...
Sure we talked on the phone, sent letters...(not email)
but when we got home the kids were staying over nite at a friends house, (or wked) The first thing she wanted was to have me inside her, right then and there...she had been empty for too long. all the cuddling an petting would happen after this...and dinner out, then back for a full night of the cuddling, heavy petting...+
The first time I thought we would go out for dinner, come home talk about what had been happining since I was gone,...Hahahah, nope, she would have none of that. we talked. only while we waited for my buddy to wake up...of course there was oral...lots for her...I enjoyed this as much as recieving, infact more...
So just go with the flow.
D

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Registered: 04-08-2005
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 12:26am

Thanks everyone for your opinions. Tomorrow is the big day. He will be coming in from a 15 hour flight (he's flying...literally........not a passenger)and will be exhausted. We will have our daughter with us. I wanted to leave her at school and pick her up later but still early enough that she would be excited...........but he wants her there to see him land. So, then its off to lunch and home. All of my wonderful plans will have to wait until she goes to school the NEXT day!

Then again, someone did suggest taking it slow and easing into things. Looks like we will be taking your advice. In the mean time I will drive him crazy with desire everytime the rugrat is in another room because he is the reason we will have to wait.

Oh, never under estimate the power of a woman and remember to always give us what we want. Right, girls?

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Registered: 05-06-2005
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 1:36am
Good Luck,
I know your a creative person, when the little one is outside playing with a friend, maybe he can go play at the friends house for a "little while" wink, wink....
if not. so, you will manage asap before the next day, just keep the volume down, or have the radio/music/dvd playing...
Good Luck
D
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Registered: 10-16-2004
Wed, 05-11-2005 - 7:45am

Hi silvervelvet,

I grew up w/ a Navy dad who was gone months at a time, I'm sure my parents would have liked to be alone w/o us three kids jumping all over my dad every time he came home! But it was important for us too to reconnect with him--the months apart seem a lot longer when you are just a little girl waiting for daddy.

How old is your DD? Could you wear her out beforehand at a playground so she goes to bed early?

Good luck tomorrow!

Nani