Always horny

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Registered: 08-17-2006
Always horny
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Thu, 08-17-2006 - 12:40pm

Hello to you all on this beloved forum,

Just a curious question for those of you who are M (and S too), and still have great sex life in your marriage. I am happily M and have mindblowing sex with DW, but still I find myself being horny all the time and fantasizing (let's say that I love to look around) about all the women (friends and strangers) I meet. I never gone beyond the fantasy but I am wondering if some of you have the same experience. Does it make you feel guilt? Do you enjoy it? Will you or have acted on it?

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 12:56pm
Married, male and definitely sexual. But I am not burdened with a constant barrage of fantasizing about every woman I meet. Sure, hardly an hour goes by where a thought passes through my head, and yes a sexy woman will get a glance from me, but I don't take it further than appreciating her sexiness. There are just a few woman that drive me wild and my thoughts go quite deep. I think it is healthy to have a rich fantasy life and a healthy sexual appetite, but I try to keep it in balance with all the other things life has to offer me, otherwise I am going to miss out on the riches of life.
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Registered: 06-23-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 1:07pm

Welcome to the board!


Does it make you feel guilt? Do I feel guilty for fantasizing about other people? No - I think it's very healthy and very normal.


Do you enjoy it? Yes, very much so.


Will you or have acted on it? No, fantasizing is just that - a fantasy.


Again welcome to the board! Glad to have you with us!

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 08-17-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 1:29pm

Newbie,

Thanks for the warm welcoming. I am new in posting but a regular reader of this board. Anway, sometimes it makes me feel guilt, especially the fact that my DW sexually is very satisfying in all aspects. But otherwise I enjoy wondering and glancing around .

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Registered: 08-17-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 1:38pm

Talbed,

Yes you are correct, maybe I should say that it is not every woman. But I will say that most of the women. Am I a sick horny dog or what? Anyway, in your post you mentioned that certain women drive you wild-what kind of women?

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 1:58pm
Good question actually. Smart...smart is key. And smart sexy too. Very open minded - no conformists need apply. Not just a show...words turn into actions. Confidence is good. The word no is not really in their vocabulary. Phycially, I only have one real preference, and there are a number of people who can say it right along with me...need to have some 'junk in the trunk'. And that their eyes really tell who they are.
These are the woman I really enjoy conversing with and make me feel pretty good inside.
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Registered: 08-17-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 3:32pm
Great choice of preferences! I had say that some of those qualities drive me wild too
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Registered: 07-20-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 4:02pm
I am in the same situation as talbed: always very, very horny and on the lookout for intelligent, creative potential female partners. The body, while not uninimportant, follows what's inside for me.
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 4:08pm
clarification...not always very, very horny and not on the lookout. sexual and have specific tastes is closer.