Am I losing my mind...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2007
Am I losing my mind...
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Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:33pm
or hitting my peak?? I am 31 and in, what I would describe, as a very "vanilla" time. All of a sudden the other day my mind went to work, and my body did too!! I have been opening up to DH about all of my fantasies, many of which he knew about, and REALLY telling him what I want to do. I'm sure I have scared him completely. I can't quit emailing him and texting him my thoughts and everything I want to do. I can't keep my mind off sex for even one minute. Now, I have been very sexual in the past, but the past few years since DS was born I could care less if I got any. Now tell me, am I losing my mind, or am I hitting my peak? Not that I mind, but sheesh, the wind is blowing here today and even it's turning me on ;)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2005
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:38pm

Girl..Im right there with you. I divorced about a year ago and have been with my current BF for 6 months...I turned 30 in October.

I dont know if its cause he is the most giving lover I have ever had, or because Im 30 or because I had the most boring sex ever for the 7 yrs of my marriage, but I think about it alllllll day every day.
I attack him almost every day when I get home and we have sex every morning before work. If I could get him here at lunch for a quickie, Id do that too.

Whew....at least I know Im normal...;)

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:44pm
I really don't have an answer for you....but can you call my wife...or get her to drink the same water as you...or hang out with her...or ANYTHING that will rub off on her?!? ;-)
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:46pm
where do I get one of you gals from? I thought you were kind of like unicorns!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2007
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:49pm

Your not loosing your mind. I'm 43 and have gone through many periods like that. I call them my slut stages. I'll go six months where I can't get enough sex. I had DH coming home on his lunch hour just so I didn't have to go without. He loved it. I'll usually do things I'd never normally do, like swallow.

With me it comes and goes. The one thing is DH comes to want me to be like that all the time. It's just too intense to keep up.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:52pm
this is just rubbing salt in the wound!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2005
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:52pm

Well...Its been 6 1/2 months for me and Im not even thinking about stopping...as a matter of fact, I just called him to tell him I want him tonight in all 3 holes and he about jumped thru the phone....LOL

I cant wait to go home!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2005
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:55pm

awww...anytwhere

Why dont you surprise her by going thru your own personal "slut stage" lol
Just act like you have to have her all the time and you cant keep your hands off her. Send her provocative emails, nasty phone calls

She may surprise you back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:55pm
someone put me out of my misery....
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:58pm
I've tried that once or twice....or more....enough times that I'm not trying anymore. I'll just live vicariously through you guys, I guess!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2005
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 5:02pm

Well...I know one time I told a boyfriend this..

We were kissing and petting and getting pretty serious. He was touching me ever so gently and sweetly.
I took his face in my hands so he was looking directly in my eyes and said
"Honey..I love you more than life, and I love making love to you...but right now I want you to F%#* me like your life depends on it"
And then went back to kissing him

This drove him crazy...You could try a version of this with your wife and maybe she'll respond knowing that you "NEED" her so bad

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