Am I over reacting

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Registered: 11-28-2012
Am I over reacting
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Wed, 11-28-2012 - 1:57pm
I need to know if I am over reacting to a situation. My husband and I have played with other couples in the past but one of our main rules is that we are always together, same room, everyone playing with each other. My husband is a big time hunter and is always gone about 3 weeks this time of year hunting. While on the phone with him he suggested I get a boyfriend to keep me satisfied while he is gone. I didn't think he was really serious, but got on a dating website and told him I had some prospects. He urged me to contact them, and then said he wants all the details about the sex I have with them while he is gone, then he got off just thinking about it. My question...Women, how would you feel about your husband giving you away to other guys, and getting totally turned on by it? Men, how many of you would be alright with your wife getting a boyfirend to play with while you were away? Would it turn you on?
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Registered: 07-03-2006
Wed, 11-28-2012 - 4:52pm
As for me it is not a turn on. I personally know a lady who's husband gets turned on by it. She started to do on a limited basis escort service. He gets off on all the details. I have also experienced there are a lot of men that want to just watch their wife have sex. He is not alone .

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 11-29-2012 - 10:51am

I can't really answer your question as I'm not into that. I know my husband would not want be being with another man.



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Registered: 01-15-2013
Tue, 03-12-2013 - 5:14pm

I would love to know how this is going, sounds similar to my wife and I.

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Registered: 08-01-2012
Wed, 03-13-2013 - 2:51am
If it makes you uncomfortable, then you are not over-reacting. It sounds like you and your husband have finally crossed the line into something that is good for him but not good for you. During sexual exploration, boundaries get pushed. It looks like your husband may have finally found your limit. You should decline early - before he starts to expect this from you on a regular basis.