Anal Sex ? Can anyone Help

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Anal Sex ? Can anyone Help
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 3:29pm
This is my first time here and i was wondering if anyone had some advise they could give. My BF and i tried anal sex a week ago and although i did find i enjoyable a day later i got hemorroids. As embarassing as this is i thought i better find out if this in normal or did something go wrong. I would love to hear any suggestions. Thank you


Debbie

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:19pm
I like the silicone lubricants like EROS. Also, I'm glad I used a anal beginner kit first (http://www.pleasuremenow.com/product.asp?0=298&1=301&3=945). It has probes of increasing size that got me used to anal penetration first. Another help is Anal-Ese, a desensitizer that helps your anal muscles relax.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 4:45pm
Hey there....

Actually, you probably don't have a hemmoroid (or however you spell it lol), but more likely a fissure or slight tear in the delicate tissues. It is fairly common. One thing that might help prevent them is to use more lube, or to use a thicker lube. That won't always work though.

Hope that helps.

Audrey