1. Have you ever tried anal sex? How was it the first time? yes, first time he didnt penetrate all the way because I could relax enough to make it comfortable. But the second time he was able to fully penetrate and it was pretty good
2. If you've never tried it, why not? n/a
3. Whose idea was it the first time, yours or your partners? He suggested it after playing around back there and seeing how turned on I was by it. But I had already thought about it
4. Is it a regular part of your sex life? Yes, Probably at least twice a month. It makes for the best "make up sex"
5. How long were you sexually active before you tried anal? 7 years
6. Anything else you'd like to share on this subject? I know all about being clean, relaxing, and lots of lube but I recently realized that I can ( and did) develop a small skin tag "back there" probably from a small tear that happened during a session of Anal ( since I have never had hemmeroids) I wasnt aware that could happen and it kinda freaked me out a little when I discovered it. I talked to "x" ( the CL of the gyn board) and she confirmed that is was pretty normal, Now I have to decide wether I want it removed or not, I am considering not as long is it doesnt grow since It may just come back if I continue to engage in that, and I dont want it to come back larger.... I realize that its kinda gross to mention that but I wish I would have known it was a possibility of happening so I wouldnt have freaked out so much when I did discover it...
1. Have you ever tried anal sex? YES How was it the first time? IT HURT LIKE HELL, AND I CRIED, AND WE QUIT, AND MY DH, THEN MY BF WAS SO UPSET AND WORRIED ABOUT ME, THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO TRY AGAIN, BUT I AM A VERY COMPETITIVE PERSON, AND DIDN'T LIKE BEING UNSUCCESSFUL, SO I EXPERIMENTED BY MYSELF WITH A DILDO TO SEE WHAT WOULD WORK AND HOW WE COULD DO IT, SO THE NEXT TIME WAS AWESOME!
2. If you've never tried it, why not? N/A
3. Whose idea was it the first time, yours or your partners? MY PARTNER, HE HAD ALWAYS WANTED TO TRY, BUT COULDN'T GET ANYONE ELSE INTERESTED, OR WASN'T SUCCESSFUL WITH THE ONE THAT HE DID CONVINCE TO TRY.
4. Is it a regular part of your sex life? YES, IT IS ALWAYS WHAT WE DO DURING MY PERIOD, SO NOW MY DH GETS REALLY EXCITED WHEN I TELL HIM THAT I HAVE "STARTED". AT LEAST THERE IS SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT THAT.
5. How long were you sexually active before you tried anal? WELL, I FIRST HAD SEX WITH MY EX-H WHEN I WAS 21 . . . THEN WE QUIT HAVING SEX WHEN I WAS ABOUT 33, MUCH LESS ANYTHING ADVENTUROUS . . . WE DIVORCED WHEN I WAS 43, AND IT WAS WITH MY BF, NOW MY DH, THAT I TRIED ANAL, AFTER WE HAD BEEN HAVING SEX FOR ABOUT A YEAR, SO HOW MANY YEARS IS THAT ?
6. Anything else you'd like to share on this subject? THIS HAS BEEN A GREAT ADDITION TO OUR "ROUTINE". VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF SEX AND SHARING THIS TYPE OF SEX INCREASES OUR APPRECIATION OF EACH OTHER. MY DH STILL CANNOT BELIEVE THAT I WAS WILLING TO TRY ANAL AND TO MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL AND HE IS JUST BLOWN AWAY EVERY TIME WE DO IT AND IT JUST GETS BETTER AND BETTER, AND I COULD ASK HIM FOR ANYTHING AFTER WE DO IT ! ! !
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"6. Anything else you'd like to share on this subject?Yes, I like sex...."
LOL, Caroline I love the cleverness there! That was a classic answer and true for most of us.
Chakra
1. Have you ever tried anal sex? How was it the first time? yes, first time he didnt penetrate all the way because I could relax enough to make it comfortable. But the second time he was able to fully penetrate and it was pretty good
2. If you've never tried it, why not? n/a
3. Whose idea was it the first time, yours or your partners? He suggested it after playing around back there and seeing how turned on I was by it. But I had already thought about it
4. Is it a regular part of your sex life? Yes, Probably at least twice a month. It makes for the best "make up sex"
5. How long were you sexually active before you tried anal? 7 years
6. Anything else you'd like to share on this subject? I know all about being clean, relaxing, and lots of lube but I recently realized that I can ( and did) develop a small skin tag "back there" probably from a small tear that happened during a session of Anal ( since I have never had hemmeroids) I wasnt aware that could happen and it kinda freaked me out a little when I discovered it. I talked to "x" ( the CL of the gyn board) and she confirmed that is was pretty normal, Now I have to decide wether I want it removed or not, I am considering not as long is it doesnt grow since It may just come back if I continue to engage in that, and I dont want it to come back larger.... I realize that its kinda gross to mention that but I wish I would have known it was a possibility of happening so I wouldnt have freaked out so much when I did discover it...
Jenn
1. Have you ever tried anal sex? YES
How was it the first time? IT HURT LIKE HELL, AND I CRIED, AND WE QUIT, AND MY DH, THEN MY BF WAS SO UPSET AND WORRIED ABOUT ME, THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO TRY AGAIN, BUT I AM A VERY COMPETITIVE PERSON, AND DIDN'T LIKE BEING UNSUCCESSFUL, SO I EXPERIMENTED BY MYSELF WITH A DILDO TO SEE WHAT WOULD WORK AND HOW WE COULD DO IT, SO THE NEXT TIME WAS AWESOME!
2. If you've never tried it, why not? N/A
3. Whose idea was it the first time, yours or your partners? MY PARTNER, HE HAD ALWAYS WANTED TO TRY, BUT COULDN'T GET ANYONE ELSE INTERESTED, OR WASN'T SUCCESSFUL WITH THE ONE THAT HE DID CONVINCE TO TRY.
4. Is it a regular part of your sex life? YES, IT IS ALWAYS WHAT WE DO DURING MY PERIOD, SO NOW MY DH GETS REALLY EXCITED WHEN I TELL HIM THAT I HAVE "STARTED". AT LEAST THERE IS SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT THAT.
5. How long were you sexually active before you tried anal? WELL, I FIRST HAD SEX WITH MY EX-H WHEN I WAS 21 . . . THEN WE QUIT HAVING SEX WHEN I WAS ABOUT 33, MUCH LESS ANYTHING ADVENTUROUS . . . WE DIVORCED WHEN I WAS 43, AND IT WAS WITH MY BF, NOW MY DH, THAT I TRIED ANAL, AFTER WE HAD BEEN HAVING SEX FOR ABOUT A YEAR, SO HOW MANY YEARS IS THAT ?
6. Anything else you'd like to share on this subject? THIS HAS BEEN A GREAT ADDITION TO OUR "ROUTINE". VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF SEX AND SHARING THIS TYPE OF SEX INCREASES OUR APPRECIATION OF EACH OTHER. MY DH STILL CANNOT BELIEVE THAT I WAS WILLING TO TRY ANAL AND TO MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL AND HE IS JUST BLOWN AWAY EVERY TIME WE DO IT AND IT JUST GETS BETTER AND BETTER, AND I COULD ASK HIM FOR ANYTHING AFTER WE DO IT ! ! !
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