Anal..gross or not?

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Registered: 12-10-2006
Anal..gross or not?
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Sun, 12-10-2006 - 10:57pm
I can see how it can be gross, after all, isn't it an exit? My husband has taken it slowly over the years. In the past, if I wanted it to stop because it was too painful, he would stop. I also have to be in the mood to have it, even though he makes me climax that way. I'm used to it now, and actually enjoy it. I always use an enema about an hour or two before I know that we're going to have it...gotta feel fresh, you know? It definitely is not for everyone. Hey, he is a good cook, a great father to our two children, my family loves him, he's romantic, successful, has a good sense of humor, knows how to iron and even does the laundry. I guess having anal once in a while isn't bad at all!

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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 12:38am
HI Vienna,


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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 1:38am
We have anal pretty frequently and we both enjoy it.

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Registered: 03-11-2006
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 12:08pm
Okay, this may be niave of me but how do you do an enema and where do you get them? Does it make a difference? I've had anal play and sex and never used one.

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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 1:02pm

I don't think enemas are necessary but for some people, that's part of the fun.

 

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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 1:19pm
I guess I'm one of the luckiest wives in the world. My DH is the most "domesticated"-well trained husband of anyone I've ever known. He does ALL of the housework, All of the yard work including my Mom's yard, MOST of the cooking and some of the laundry and grocery shopping. Most days I only have to check my DS's homework. All of this in addition to working full time himself. ( I work 2 jobs and am the primary bill payer for the family ). And, he does it all WITHOUT ANAL SEX!
Definatly gross and "NOT" doing it.


Edited 12/11/2006 1:59 pm ET by danidi
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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 1:24pm
All drug stores have a single use enema. Usual brand name is Fleet. Saline or pure water is best. Only risks are 1) can actually loosen things more and 2) can rid you of the scarce natural moisture within that area. I can also understand the sense of 'confidence' it can bring to a person too.
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 1:27pm
My wife has always thought it to be gross and even unhealthy. However in the last year she has accepted play and rimming more regularly, and even admitted this weeked that she really liked it as part of our play. Are we moving in the direction of anal sex? Still too close to call, but it would be fabulous. In the meantime, finding my face as her throne is plenty fun for me!
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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 4:34pm
Welcome to the board!! Anal = gross? Not to me and my hubby. Anal = fun!!

 

 

 

 

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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 4:50pm
I think you're moving in the right direction for anal sex.

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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 5:11pm
she knows my desires in that regard, and how strong they have been. she also knows I love her no less if I go unfulfilled. I am letting her forge her own path on this one, and because this is all her doing and initiation so far, I think it is even more exciting for her. not counting all my ducks here by any means...just more promising signs than I have seen in well over a decade. thanks for the good luck wish! and I am glad that you have pursued your own paths of pleasure, even if there was not an evident clearing to follow. Those paths less travels can be very fun!!! continue to be courageous and explore!

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