?? and suggestion about DP fantasy
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| Wed, 08-09-2006 - 3:37pm |
Hi ladies. A friend of mine used to CL a different board here and I've just come back to visit recently (I posted on the Oral Sex board today to so I guess I'm just jumping right in!)
I guess this is both a suggestion and also a question if other ladies have done this and enjoyed it. My wife recently gave anal sex a try and while I wouldn't go so far to say she really enjoyed it, she at least didn't mind it (I LOVED IT!! like having sex with a virgin again).
Anyway, I would think that having sex with two guys would be a common fantasy and I'm wondering if double penetration is much of a fantasy for you ladies. I would think the sensation of feeling filled up combined with the tension would build up to a powerful orgasm.
The other night I was giving my wife some pleasure. She has a small vibrator (her first since I didn't want to scare her with a big one) and a medium vibrator. While I was playing with her I used the small vibrator anally and stimulated her clit (doggy position). Then I used both vibrators at the same time for a while and she had a pretty intense orgasm. After that I continued to use the small vibrator anally and entered her vaginally. Finally I switched and used the medium vibrator on her vaginally and entered her anally. (Although I could barely enter her so I just went in a tiny bit so I wouldn't hurt her.) We finished with some oral and missionary sex for a couple more O's but that's beside the point.
I enjoyed it because I could feel the vibrations from the vibrator while I entered her. I thought this was a fun, safe way to indulge any fantasies you might have of a 3some with double penetration. Any ladies thought of this?
(My wife didn't say that she liked it, but I think the powerful O spoke for itself.)

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Early in our marriage my wife and I were watching a porn together and she betrayed herself by getting obviuosly aroused by a scene where a woman was enthusiasticlly pleasing both at the same time, orally and vaginally( the differnce from other similar scenes being that she didnt look "used" at all, but into it). After her initial blush, we talked about it and discovered the joy of being able to share even our deepest secrets with each other..
But for the longest time she was completely turned off by scenes where a woman with two men was being both vaginally and anally penetrated. Until.... we started investing in trying different toys. After finding what she liked best vaginally, we had toys left over that eventually, starting small, found there way to her anus. And now, in her wilder moods, she occasionally will masturbate with two dildos both much larger than the average man, or have me use one while Im inside her( which feels great to me as well, especially the vibrating type), and has even had me wear one strapped on, so that I am doing both holes at once.
She still doesn't like 99 percent of the scenes where two actual men are penetrating a woman this way. Either because the portrayal is negative or because it just looks so awkward and so often one or both of the men are in a position where they really cant move much... and when she pointed that out ... I said, "So whats bothering you is that its too awkward for both guys to be really going at it? And after the blush she admitted that after the toy play she is now very interested in the fantasy of being enthusiasticlly done by two men at once...
So I do think playing with toys is a good way to go, both to simulate an acceptable fantasy, and maybe broaden your horizon...
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