Bisexual boyfriend? (graphic)

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Registered: 01-20-2005
Bisexual boyfriend? (graphic)
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Sun, 10-22-2006 - 10:17am

Well, a few months ago my bf told me about a couple experiences he had a few years ago with his best guy friend. They got drunk one night and his friend ended up giving my bf a bj. And then it happened a few months later as well. It didn't and still doesn't bother me that it happened, and I felt lucky considering he's never told anyone but me. And actually, since he told me about it, I think our r'ship has been even better. Partly could be the fact that he knows now that he can confide in me completely, plus we even talk about it more openly, and we experiment a lot more!

So last week, we were laying in bed talking about it. And he said that something else had happened he didn't tell me about. It seems him and his friend were sitting around, drinking as usual, and his friend asked if he wanted to try anal. So his friend performed anal sex on my bf. This was a few months after the bj's. (It was actually turning me on to picture this), and I asked him if he liked it. He said it was ok, but he didn't get off.

Then I asked him if he would do it again, and he said probably. I asked him if he would do his friend or give him a bj, and he said probably. I said I would like to see that, so he said he thought maybe we should do a threesome with his friend, or a foursome with his friend and his girlfriend.

Hmmm...I just don't know. Honestly I'd probably do the threesome with his friend, but I don't want my bf near his friend's gf - you know what I mean? And I know I personally could not do anything to another girl. And I just don't know about a girl going down on me, maybe......

So, does this make him or me bisexual? And can a straight relationship work just fine when one person is bisexual?

What are your thoughts on all this?

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Registered: 11-02-2006
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 5:44pm
Your bf isn't telling all, my guess is he's already, pardon the pun, been down that path already. You're putting yourself at greater risk for HIV and AIDS, be very careful.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 6:47pm
Just for the record, if you think you aren't putting yourself at risk for HIV and AIDS by having unprotected sex with ANYONE, you're fooling yourself. HIV isn't just a "gay disease"!

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Registered: 11-07-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 2:24pm

last night my bf and i experimented a strap on. he liked it very much. he told me it is one of his fantasies. that's the reason why we tried it.

now, he wants another guy doing it to himself, give me bj and vise versa, do 69 with him, let him do him anally and vice versa. the thought of it also makes me excited. i told him i want to watch both of them. he said he has no problem with it.

i also asked him if this makes him gay. he said no. its all about experimenting. i dont mind. i guess my question would be, can he do it with another guy with protection?

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