Biting?
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| Sat, 03-25-2006 - 1:51pm |
Hi. Kind of a lurker here, but now I have a question. Has anyone ever gotten into biting...to the point of blood?
Here's what happened. Last night was the longest most amazing night of sex I have ever had in my life. This man makes me do and say things that I have only fantasized about before. I even squirted for the first time last night....three times. He is up for anything and everything, and loves that I completely let go around him. I've been known to be rather shy about my fantasies and desires in the past. Rather uptight to be exact, except in my private fantasies. (Which explains the lurking on this board.)
Anyway, at one point he bent his head and bit my arm. Hard, to the point of blood. He said he likes to bite and it is a hell of a turn on for him. It hurt a lot, but the intensity of the feeling and his reaction to it was really a turn on too. Even afterward when he gently touched the marks and kissed them. Now today, I don't like that I have a big bruise and teeth marks, but I tingle everytime I look at the marks he made.
Not sure what my exact question is, I guess I'd just like to know some of your thoughts and insight on the whole biting thing. I want to be open to it, but it really was never even on my radar before last night.

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Very true bostonsteve, there is a difference between good hurt and bad hurt. When he bit my arm, like I said, it was a turn on, but he also bit my finger and that HURT! It is still numb. I guess I just need to find the places it is ok to bite vs. the ones that aren't??
To answer your questions littlemascara, it may be part of a control thing, but we seem to evenly share that. At least we have since he taught me to let go and take charge. Depending on the mood, it can be slow and sweet or it can be pretty rough, especially during doggie style and anal, but no complaints on either of those!!
I just can't believe the things he has done to me over the past few weeks. He opened the door to everything I always wanted to do, but never thought I actually could. Hope it isn't Pandora's Box. LOL Wish he could come back tonight.....
Welcome out of lurkdom, numbersgirl.
Others gave you great advice and stories.
sounds like you had an awesome night.
I'm not sure i'd like biting that hard. I do like nibbling and such...gentle bites and such....
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