boyfreind threaten to leave if I do not

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Registered: 06-26-2009
boyfreind threaten to leave if I do not
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Mon, 05-31-2010 - 11:43am
My boyfriend of four months told me if I do not have anal sex he do not want to see me...what should I do ?? we have tried but it hurts me so badly..

 

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 1:15pm

You don't have to do anything you don't like to do or are not comfortable with doing and there's nothing wrong with that.

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 6:18pm
I would let him go. He doesn't seem to care that he hurts you, there's something wrong there. Good luck.
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Registered: 03-07-2008
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 7:55pm
Tell him not to let the door hit him on the ass on his way out...
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 9:01pm

I just wanted to add to my previous reply that him trying to manipulate you by threatening you is wrong.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 12:37am
Maybe that should be: "Tell him not to let the doorknob sodomize him on the way out."
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Registered: 11-29-2007
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 1:07pm

Give him his walking papers.
If it's THAT important to him, you guys aren't going to find a good compromise anyway.

And, do you really want to be with someone who's so completely inflexible, regardless of YOUR physical pain???

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Registered: 06-26-2009
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 1:22pm
After his requested, I started making my own requested..

 

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Registered: 06-08-2009
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 3:47pm

Never, ever let someone else force you to do something in bed that you do not want to do. He does not love you, nor does he respect you. Get rid of him today, and start looking for a real man, not a bully.

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 5:23pm
You should insist he does leave, the guy is an ass
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 7:52am
Personally, if someone said that to me, I would show them the door. If it's not something that you want to do, or enjoy, then you don't do it.



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